What Will Matter Tomorrow?
We live in interesting times, and sometimes we become so immersed in what is happening that we lose sight of who we are and what really matters. We get caught up in elections, analyzing the results, debating who the real winners and losers are, and speculating about what the outcomes portend for the future. People need things to talk about, subjects to fill the empty spaces in their lives, and they become absorbed in the latest news development, the latest hock, controversy, or scandal. Before long, they can become so consumed by the events and distractions of the moment that they forget who we are, where we come from, and what we stand for.
Elections consume enormous
amounts of attention. There are campaigns, personalities, predictions,
victories, disappointments, maneuvering, and endless analysis. In Eretz
Yisroel, the political debate touches the very foundations of Jewish life, the
future of the country, and the relationship between the Torah world and the
broader society. In America, as well, elections can become all-consuming, with
people passionately debating the direction of the country and what the results
will mean for the future.
These matters are important. They
affect our lives and the lives of our children, and we cannot afford to be
indifferent to what happens around us. But they are not the entirety of our
lives, nor should they become the measure by which we define ourselves. The
question is not only what happens today, who wins or loses, or which political
forces gain ground. It is also what we are building for tomorrow, what we stand
for, and what we are passing on to the generations that follow us.
That lesson is reflected in the
life of Avrohom Avinu. Following the passing of Sorah Imeinu, Avrohom does not
remain absorbed in the past, dwelling only on the life they shared and all they
had accomplished together. After arranging for Sorah’s burial in the Me’oras
Hamachpeilah, he turned his attention to the future and sent Eliezer to
find a wife for Yitzchok.
Avrohom understood that what he
and Sorah had begun had to be carried forward, nurtured, and strengthened by
those who would follow them. Their responsibility was not merely to live lives
of greatness, but to establish a legacy that would endure.
That remains our responsibility
as a people. Our mission extends beyond any particular administration,
election, or political contest. Governments come and go, political fortunes
rise and fall, and the issues dominating the headlines today will give way to
the controversies of tomorrow, but the obligations of Klal Yisroel
remain. We must be mindful of the values, traditions, faith, and commitments we
are transmitting to our children, and of the kind of world we are preparing
them to inherit.
The posuk states, “Vayihiyu
chayei Sorah,” and Rashi cites the familiar words of Chazal,
“Kulon shovin letovah — All her years were equally good.” Sorah lived
through upheaval, uncertainty, displacement, and enormous personal challenges.
She left her birthplace and family, wandered from place to place, endured years
of waiting, and experienced trials that would have overwhelmed most people. Yet
her life was not defined by the turmoil surrounding her. Her identity and sense
of purpose came from her relationship with Hashem, her emunah, her kedusha,
the good she did, and her many accomplishments.
Sorah did not allow the
circumstances of the moment to obscure the larger purpose of her life. She
remained steadfast in her mission, and the years of her life were woven into
one continuous tapestry of faith and devotion to Hashem. The world around her changed,
circumstances shifted, and challenges arose, but her inner compass remained
fixed.
That is a message we need today.
We can follow the news, care about elections, debate political developments,
and worry about the future of America and Eretz Yisroel. We can recognize that
the decisions made by those in positions of power have consequences for our
families, our communities, and our people. But we cannot allow the stream of
information, speculation, and controversy to displace the things that give our
lives meaning.
We cannot become so preoccupied
with what is happening around us that we forget what is happening within us,
what we are responsible for, and what Hashem expects of us. The study of Torah
and our dedication to mitzvos are the constants of life and should be
the constants of our lives.
What endures is not the commotion
of the moment, but the life we build, the values we embody, and the legacy we
leave behind.
Every generation has its tests.
Each period presents unique challenges, and every generation tends to believe
that the difficulties it faces are more formidable than anything its
predecessors had to endure. The nature of the tests changes, the circumstances
are different, and the pressures take new forms. Many of the challenges
confronting us today involve self-control and discipline in an age of
unprecedented plenty, convenience, and virtually unlimited access. The struggle
is often not how to obtain what we need, but how to restrain ourselves from
indulging in everything that is available.
It was not that long ago there
were only a handful of wealthy individuals, and few could have imagined today’s
degree of communal wealth and material comfort. Life was simpler, material
expectations were more modest, and the temptations that accompany prosperity
were less pervasive. People had fewer choices, fewer luxuries, and fewer
opportunities to indulge themselves.
In the generation before that,
our communities were largely made up of immigrants who had come to this country
fleeing hunger, persecution, and death. They faced an entirely different set of
challenges. Institutions of Jewish education were underdeveloped, employment
opportunities for shomrei Shabbos were inadequate, and the fear of not
having enough to feed one’s family was a very real concern. They were forced to
make do with little, and maintaining a Torah life required much sacrifice. Only
those with tremendous strength of character and faith were able to withstand
the pressures and transmit their mesorah to their children. Millions
were lost to assimilation, while those who remained loyal to Torah did so
through courage, determination, and extraordinary mesiras nefesh.
Yet they drew the strength to
persevere by looking beyond themselves and the circumstances of their
generation, studying the lives of those who came before them, beginning with
the avos and imahos, whose experiences, struggles, and triumphs
are recorded in the Torah so that we can draw inspiration and guidance from
them. Their lives are the foundation of our identity and an enduring source of
strength for every generation that follows.
The posuk (Bereishis
24:22) relates that after Eliezer determined that Rivkah was the girl destined
to marry Yitzchok and become one of the imahos of Klal Yisroel,
he presented her with a golden nose ring weighing a beka and two golden
bracelets weighing ten zohov.
Rashi explains that these
gifts carried profound significance. The beka alluded to the shekolim
of Klal Yisroel, about which the posuk says “beka lagulgoles.”
The two bracelets represented the two Luchos, while the words “asorah
zohov mishkolom” alluded to the Aseres Hadibros.
To someone observing the
encounter between Eliezer and Rivkah, it appeared to be an ordinary exchange of
gifts. There was a man traveling with a caravan who had found a suitable young
woman and was presenting her with valuable jewelry. Nobody watching could have
understood the extraordinary significance concealed in those gifts. Only
through the Torah and its meforshim, with the benefit of understanding
what unfolded and what was to come, can we appreciate the depth of Eliezer’s shlichus
and the way he went about finding Yitzchok’s basherte.
Rivkah’s brother, Lovon, the very
embodiment of deceit and chicanery, was captivated by Eliezer, the gold he had
given his sister, and the impressive caravan of camels accompanying him. While
Eliezer understood that he was participating in an undertaking that would shape
the future of Klal Yisroel, Lovon couldn’t see past the jewelry and the
wealth. Eliezer saw the mission; Lovon saw the opportunity. One perceived the
hand of Hashem guiding events, while the other was preoccupied with what he
could gain from them.
That contrast is not limited to
Lovon. People are often so taken by what is immediately visible that they never
stop to consider what may lie beneath the surface. We judge situations by what
we see, measure success by what we possess, and determine whether things are
going well by the circumstances confronting us at a particular moment. We see
the immediate development but fail to recognize that there may be a much larger
picture unfolding, one that we are not yet capable of seeing.
But as maaminim and
descendants of Avrohom Avinu, we know that nothing is random, that Hashem
guides our lives in particular and the world in general, and that, quite often,
His plan is beyond our comprehension.
Recognizing this requires a
certain kind of self-mastery as well. The yeitzer hora wants us to see
only what is directly in front of us, to become consumed by the moment, and to
lose sight of the larger picture. The yeitzer hora encourages
impatience, resentment, and despair. Emunah teaches us to look beyond
the immediate circumstances, to recognize that Hashem is directing events, and
to trust that there is a purpose even when we cannot discern it.
There is always what we see and
experience on the superficial level, and then there is the deeper reality,
which we cannot always perceive or appreciate. Eliezer understood that reality.
Lovon did not. The difference between them is the difference between living
with emunah and being governed by the appearances of this world.
We spend so much time discussing
elections, analyzing political victories and defeats, debating personalities,
and repeating the latest gossip, convinced that we are examining the important
developments of the day. Some of these matters are indeed consequential, and we
have a responsibility to pay attention to them. But how often do we become
absorbed in the surface of things, arguing over what happened and who came out
ahead, without considering the deeper questions of where events may lead and
what they mean? We scrutinize the latest headlines, dissect the words and
actions of public figures, and eagerly pass along the latest hock, while
overlooking the larger picture unfolding before us.
Avrohom Avinu teaches us that a
person must learn to look beyond the immediate scene. Where others see only
what is visible at the moment, a person guided by emunah understands
that what we see unfolding is Hashem’s plan. We have to develop the depth and
discipline to see beyond the immediate, to look ahead, and to believe in the
future.
The great builders of Torah
weren’t dissuaded by the news of the day. They remained focused on their
mission no matter who was in power, which way the stock market was moving, or
which side appeared to be gaining the upper hand.
The parshiyos we learn
during these weeks inspire us to recognize that we are bnei Avrohom,
Yitzchok v’Yaakov. They remind us of the greatness of our heritage, the
responsibilities that come with it, and what we must do to succeed in the roles
Hashem has entrusted to us. Each of us has a mission. The road does not always
unfold as we planned, and life often brings us circumstances we never
anticipated. But what may seem to us like an interruption or a detour is all
part of Hashem’s plan. With emunah and bitachon, we can maintain
our dignity, our confidence, and our sense of purpose.
Our confidence in a better
tomorrow must never be shaken. We cannot allow the yeitzer hora to
depress us, diminish our ambitions, or persuade us that our efforts are futile.
We cannot control everything that happens around us, the decisions of others,
the political climate, or the twists and turns of our personal lives. We cannot
always choose the circumstances in which we find ourselves, but we can choose
the people we become as a result of them. We can decide whether to be governed
by anger, jealousy, fear, and disappointment, or whether to remain anchored in
Torah and emunah. That is the deeper meaning of being moshel b’chol
asher lo, mastering ourselves rather than allowing the world around us to
master us. We cannot determine what tomorrow will bring, but we can determine
whether we will face it as people who know who they are and Whom they serve.
We must be as resolute as our
grandparents were when they arrived in a strange country, surrounded by an
unfamiliar language and customs. They did not know what tomorrow would bring,
and life presented them with hardships, disappointments, and temptations
aplenty. Every morning, they arose with an awareness of their great heritage
and the obligations that accompanied it. They had a Chumash, a Gemara,
a Tehillim, and a siddur to remind them who they were, what they
were living for, and how to look beyond the difficulties and threats of the
day. Their circumstances did not define them. Their identity came from the
Torah and mesorah they carried with them.
They bequeathed that strength to
us. They left us the ability to withstand adversity, maintain the proper
perspective, and face life with confidence. Their outlook was not dependent on
circumstances or the latest turn of events. It was rooted in the immutable
truth that Hashem runs the world, and our responsibility is to remain faithful
to Him and to the mission He has given us. When things happen to us or to the
world around us, when we cannot understand what is unfolding or know what to do
next, we should ask ourselves: What would Avrohom Avinu have done? What would
Eliezer have done? What would our grandfathers and grandmothers have done? What
would our rabbeim and their rabbeim have done? Their example can
help us see beyond the immediate circumstances and respond with the wisdom,
restraint, and emunah that have sustained our people throughout the
generations.
But that perspective does not
come by itself. We need to learn, to reflect, and to work on ourselves. Study
the parsha with the meforshim. Study the seforim hakedoshim
such as Chovos Halevavos, Mesilas Yeshorim, the works of the Chofetz
Chaim, the Sefas Emes, and so many others. Find seforim that
speak to you, that you can understand and learn consistently. Review them.
Learn with a chavrusa or a rebbi. Pick up the phone and speak to
a rebbi or a rov when you need guidance. There is no reason to
just drift through life when we can easily find direction and purpose.
We should care about what happens
in America, in Eretz Yisroel, and throughout the world. We should be informed
and involved. But we must not allow the events of the day, the latest
controversy, or the endless stream of gossip and speculation to consume us. The
headlines will change, political fortunes will rise and fall, and today’s great
controversy will soon be replaced by tomorrow’s. Our mission, however, remains
the same and will never change. We must continue learning, growing,
strengthening our middos, and reaching higher, so that we can fulfill
the purpose for which Hashem placed us in this world.
The news from Eretz Yisroel is
troubling, Torah is under attack, and we fear what the next couple of weeks may
bring. But if we keep ourselves rooted in Torah and inspired by the examples of
the avos and imahos and those who came before us, we will have
the strength to persevere.
May Hashem enable us to grow in
what is important and live each day in a way that brings us closer to the
coming of Moshiach Tzidkeinu.


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