Living With Depth
By Rabbi Pinchos Lipschutz
We live in
troubled times, which is nothing new, as this has been the case for a while.
What is different now is that it is often confounding to know which way to go.
We see obvious truths mocked and disrespected. Superficially, everything looks
fine, but scratch the surface and there is much angst.
We see the
Jewish nation portrayed as genocidal murderers, while Western countries play
along with the blood libel. A year after the October 7th tragedy,
terror groups continue shooting rockets into Israel at the rate of hundreds a
day, while the United States places a hold on weapons for Israel, turning a
blind eye to Iran’s web of terror. Nineteen U.S. Senators voted to place a
blockade on the shipment of any weapons to Israel, which it needs to defend
itself.
Leftists in the
Jewish state, in a bid to topple the sitting prime minister, have targeted talmidei
yeshivos and kollelim. A Lubavitcher shliach, who was
bothering no one, was attacked and killed in the United Arab Emirates by
Iranian agents. Thousands of terror sympathizers march in Montreal, Paris, and
New York, and anti-Jewish expression spreads.
It’s really
nothing new and can be traced back to the parshiyos we study these
weeks. The hatred is inbred and began with Yishmoel and Eisov, heirs to
greatness who fell sway to superficiality and became overwhelmed with hatred
for the goodness and holiness they broke away from.
After years of
anticipation and tefillah, Rivkah was worried about what type of child
she would give birth to. When she passed a place of holiness, the baby got
excited, as if to express a desire to be associated with that place, much as it
did when she passed a house of tumah. She was perturbed, as the posuk
(Bereishis 25:22) records that she said, “Im kein, lamah zeh anochi,”
and went to Sheim for an explanation of the phenomenon.
The words “Lamah
zeh anochi” are commonly translated as, “If this is the way it is, then
what am I doing this for?”
Perhaps we can
understand it on a deeper level. Rivkah, as the wife of Yitzchok, knew that
Hashem had foretold to Avrohom, “Ki b’Yitzchok yikorei lecha zora,” that
his line would continue through Yitzchok. She knew that the child she was
carrying would carry forward Avrohom and Yitzchok’s mesorah. So when she
said, “Lamah zeh anochi,” perhaps she was referring to the Aseres
Hadibros that her offspring were to receive which begin with “Anochi
Hashem Elokecha.”
She was
concerned, for she knew that someone who is drawn to tumah – even if he
is also drawn to kedusha – could not carry forth the mesorah of
the avos and could not be the one to give birth to the shevotim,
whose grandchildren would receive the Torah at Sinai.
Someone who
presents himself as being holy when that stance is advantageous to him and
poses as something very different when he thinks that will help him get what he
wants cannot be a link in the transmission of Torah.
Torah is not the
domain of those who are all things to all people.
Rivkah knew that
as the child of Yitzchok and grandson of Avrohom, her son would be a leader,
carrying the torch of kedusha, taharah, and dveikus. She was
worried that the child she was carrying was demonstrating symptoms of being
unprincipled and thought that she would have been better off without children.
Sheim relieved
her when he told her that she would give birth to twins, one righteous and the
other not. Although she would have been happier with two righteous children,
she was comforted with the knowledge that she would be giving birth to a worthy
mamshich of Avrohom and Yitzchok.
Not only in her
day, but in ours as well, there is a dearth of proper leaders. In every
society, in every country, and in every industry, people are disconcerted as
they seek leadership in a drifting world. People look for someone to rally
around, a capable person who can put their feelings into words, give voice to
their concerns, and provide leadership. People seek a leader who is not only
smart, but also principled and incorruptible.
The Torah is not
some esoteric book available only to the smart and learned. The Torah is for
everyone, at every time, and in every period. It is neither in the heavens nor
available only in some remote region. It is for anyone who dedicates himself to
its study and acquisition.
As we sit by the
feet of good teachers and imbibe the lessons that were inculcated in them by
their rabbeim, our minds are opened, our souls are purified, and our
sensitivities are awakened to the needs and aspirations of our people.
When we seek
answers to our questions, we should do as the Bubbeh Rivkah did and seek
the word of Hashem in the bais medrash. Those who study the word of
Hashem are equipped to guide us in times of disappointment and confusion. It is
only with the Torah’s perspective that we can appreciate what is happening and
find direction and purpose in our world.
Talmidei
chachomim, tzaddikim, and anoshim gedolim
are people of depth, grounded in the truth of Torah and solid foundations of
Torah.
Eisov doesn’t
see past the surface. The Kelmer baalei mussar point out that when he
saw a pot of red soup, he was drawn to it strictly by its color. He said to
Yaakov, “Haliteini na min ha’adom ha’adom hazeh - Give me some of this
red soup.” “Al kein kara shemo Edom – Therefore, he and his offspring
are referred to as Edom” (Bereishis 25:30), because he referred to the
soup as “edom,” which means red.
By referring to
the soup by its color, he exposed his own superficiality. He didn’t know
anything about the soup other than that it had an appealing color. That was
enough for him. It could have been a pot of red paint, for all he knew, yet he
traded away his future for the momentary pleasure of something superficially
appealing.
We can suggest
that this concept is reinforced later in the parsha (27:23), when Yaakov
approached his father for the brachos. Yitzchok was confounded and
wondered whether the son before him was Yaakov or Eisov. He said, “Hakol kol
Yaakov, the voice is that of Yaakov,” but “hayodayim yedei Eisov,
the hands feel like those of Eisov.”
Yaakov was
defined by his internal feature, for he was a person of depth. Speech comes
from inside the body and is a gift given to man, separating him from animals.
When the Torah says in Bereishis, “Vayipach b’apov ruach chaim,”
that Hashem blew ruach chaim into Adam, the Targum
explains that it was “ruach memallila,” meaning speech.
Yaakov was
defined by how he used that special gift of Hashem. Eisov was defined by his
hands, external limbs of the body, which he used to murder, pillage and sin.
And as Eisov
was, so are his children. The nation of Edom to this day fails to perceive
beyond what it can touch and feel. Hence, the fascination in our world with
looks, color, and presentation. There is no depth that’s meaningful to them
beyond the surface image. Marketing is all about attracting people
superficially and emotionally to a product and cause. Rarely, if ever, is there
anything more to the promotion.
Though we live
in Golus Edom, we must ensure that we do not become enamored with – and
influenced by – the external and the superficial. We must remain purposeful and
discerning people with content and depth. We must not permit ourselves to be
misled by glib, empty rhetoric, half-truths, and distortions. We need to be
thoughtful and intelligent about what we do, discuss, and care about.
People these
days are low information. They don’t care to read or be educated about topics
they discuss or that matter to them. They hate Jews and they hate Israel just
because, not as an outgrowth of objective examination, consideration, study,
and thought. There is no debating them, because you cannot undo a feeling that
was arrived at with no interest in history, law, or the facts.
Let us not be
swayed by the prevailing trends of the moment or transient currents of popular
opinion. Let us do our best to be people of depth and understanding.
We need to act
as our avos and imahos did. When we study the parshiyos of
Bereishis, we should not be content with just a superficial reading. The
takanah of shnayim mikra v’echod targum includes the study of Targum
or Rashi, or both, for that reason. Torah study is not a superficial
activity. It requires work, concentration, and much thought.
In an age when
instant gratification and fleeting trends dominate people’s attention, the
importance of living a life of depth is ever more crucial. It’s all too easy to
slip into a pattern of superficiality, seeking the approval of others,
accumulating material possessions, or chasing after short-lived pleasures.
A life rooted in
depth offers a sense of meaning, purpose, and fulfillment that superficiality
can never provide. To live deeply is to engage with intentionality, to seek
understanding, and to align our actions with Torah values and principles taught
to us by our rabbeim, moros, and gedolim.
The
superficiality of Golus Edom focuses on creating impressions and
appearances in order to bring on external validation. People caught in
superficiality are always searching for the next trend or the next success to
validate their self-worth. This inevitably leads to a sense of emptiness and a
lack of fulfillment or accomplishment.
As Bnei
Avrohom, Yitzchok, and Yaakov, we are meant to emulate them
and live with depth. This means not only going beyond surface-level
appearances, but also pursuing wisdom, understanding Torah by learning with
deep concentration, and seeking out seforim and shiurim that go
beyond the surface and explore the depth of chochmas haTorah. It means
seeing in everything lessons for personal improvement and growth. This comes
from how we learn Chumash and its meforshim, and also from
engaging in the study of sifrei mussar and machshovah that
elevate us and instill in us why we were created and what our purpose in this
world is.
Arriving at the tachlis
of our being requires much learning, effort, and introspection. This leads to
lasting satisfaction because it grounds us in eternal Torah values that
transcend the moment.
In times of
confusion and want, the bais medrash and its leaders offer time-proven
guidance on how to overcome dissolution and achieve success.
We all have our
missions in life. We all seek to be worthy links in the chain going back to
Avrohom, Yitzchok, and Yaakov. We face many financial pressures just to be able
to maintain a stable family life. We feel pulled from all sides.
We have to be
honest not only with others, but also with ourselves. We have to understand
what we are doing and what our motivations are. If the cause is not as holy as
we think, or if we are doing something that we can’t really afford, we should
not let ourselves be fooled into something improper or unrealistic.
Flee from an
overtaxed life and carve out moments of silence to hear your heart and soul,
ensuring that they are focused on proper goals. Escape the noise of the world
and find a tent, as our grandfather Yaakov did.
Eisav sought to
succeed at all costs. Unprincipled and deceiving, he has been remembered
throughout history as the epitome of fallaciousness. Yaakov, the ish
tam yosheiv ohalim, was not a participant in the rat race and did not spend
his life trying to impress people.
Those who seek
to get away from the noise, frustration, and pressure need to find themselves
getting more seriously involved with Torah. In the ohel of Yaakov is
found inner peace, brought on by real accomplishment and growth. Check into a bais
medrash near you and get lost among those who seek no attention or fame.
Watch them as they work to understand the timeless words and wisdom of the
Torah, oblivious to all else. Taste the sweetness of life as you appreciate the
satisfaction of really understanding a Rashi, a Tosafos, a Rashba,
a Maharsha, and the words of Rav Akiva Eiger. Appreciate the blissful
joy of bringing it all together and understanding a sugya. It’s not
easy, but it brings you the best life that man can desire.
It makes all the
sacrifices that were undertaken to enable you to reach that moment worthwhile.
It makes you and your wife worthy links in the chain stretching back to Avrohom
and Sarah, Yitzchok and Rivka, Yaakov and Leah, and Rochel, and reaching forward
until the arrival of Moshiach, whom we all long for.