Lighting the Flame
By Rabbi Pinchos Lipschutz
As we study Parshas Terumah, we learn of the keruvim
(Shemos 25:20), images of angelic young children with cherubic faces
that stood on top of the Aron in the holiest place in the world. The posuk
states that they faced each other, “ufneihem ish el ochiv.”
However, when referring to the keruvim in the time
of Shlomo Hamelech, the posuk (Divrei Hayomim 2-3:13) states that
“p’neihem el hakir,” they faced the heichol. The Gemara in
Bava Basra (99a) points out the contradiction and explains that when the
Jewish people are behaving properly - “b’zeman she’osim retzono shel Makom”
- the keruvim face each other, but when the Jewish people didn’t act
properly and sinned, the keruvim turned around and faced the wall.
Rav Yitzchok Elchonon Spector, who served as the rov
of Kovno but was the rashkebehag to whom all of Klal Yisroel
directed their questions of Torah, halacha and askonus, offered a
novel explanation of the Gemara. He said that what the Gemara is
stating is that the Jewish people are doing what Hashem desires them to do when
they are facing each other and caring for each other and helping each other.
When a person only cares about himself and his family, and faces the wall
rather than face other people, becoming encumbered with their problems and
issues, he is not acting the way Hashem wants him to.
Part of being good Jews is caring for each other, not only
being concerned about ourselves and our needs.
Last week we read Parshas Mishpotim, dealing
with the halachos involving living with other people. This week’s
parsha deals with the construction of the Mishkon, the dwelling
place of the Shechinah in this world. Introducing the description of
this holy place and its construction, the posuk (Shemos 25:2)
states, “Veyikchu li terumah – And they should take donations for Me” to
build the Mishkon.
The Vilna Gaon explains that the Shechinah was in
the hearts of the Bnei Yisroel, but the people needed a place where they
could gather together. This was accomplished by “all the hearts,” all the
people who had the Shechinah beating in their hearts, making heartfelt
donations, “asher yidvenu libo.”
When people demonstrate that they appreciate what Hashem
has given them, they show that there is holiness in their soul. Kedusha
seeks to expand and strengthen. When they give of themselves and their
possessions, they are able to build a place where kedusha can take hold,
gather other sparks of holiness, and create a place of holiness.
I’ve written previously that to understand this, we can
imagine a single person striking a match on a dark winter night. The match
lights for a few seconds and then withers away. Suppose two people are together
and each one lights a match. The flame is larger, brighter and warmer than when
a single match is struck, though it is still quite feeble. The more matches
struck together, the more warmth and light there will be.
Every Jew has an individual spark of kedusha, but by
itself and when it is cold and dark, the spark can’t accomplish much. When Jews
join together, each one with his spark, a torch of kedusha erupts and
the Shechinah has a place it can visit.
This is the explanation of the Mishnah in Pirkei
Avos which states that when two Jews join to study Torah, the Shechinah
is among them. This is because they have combined their sparks to light the
world for Torah. In such a place, the Shechinah feels comfortable and
joins.
When the entirety of Klal Yisroel joins in
contributing “bechol levovom” for a place of kedusha, the Shechinah
has found a dwelling place among us in this world.
With this, we can understand a statement of Rabi Akiva: “Ish
v’isha zochu Shechinah beineihem - If a man and woman merit, the Shechinah
is with them” (Sotah 17a). When a man and a woman marry, if each one is
filled with hopes of building a proper Jewish home and has strengthened
themselves with good middos and fidelity to Torah and kedusha,
they have fostered a place where the Shechinah can feel comfortable.
We no longer have the Mikdosh, but we do have within
ourselves sparks of holiness, and if we properly observe halacha, study
Torah, and help other people, we can fashion within our hearts and homes a
place for the Shechinah.
At the foundation of Yiddishkeit – necessary to
excel in Torah – are middos which guide a person’s personal conduct and
how he deals with others. Just being alone and concerned only about ourselves
leaves us with tiny sparks, but in order to flame up into something bigger and
better, we have to deal, learn and work with other people.
Hashem told Moshe to accept donations for the Mishkon
only from people “asher yidvenu libo,” those who want to give. Nobody
should be forced to contribute to the construction of the Mishkon.
The Alter of Kelm asks that considering that the call for
the construction of the Mishkon came in the desert after being freed
from Mitzrayim and receiving the Torah, who of the Jewish people wouldn’t want
to contribute to a building for the Shechinah to dwell among them?
How are we to understand that people in their situation
would not want to part with a few shekels to help construct a Bais
Hashem?
The question is strengthened by the fact that nobody among
them had worked hard for the wealth with which they had been blessed.
Everything they had was obviously obtained through chesed Hashem,
fulfilling the promise made to Avrohom of “V’acharei chein yeitz’u b’rechush
gadol” (Bereishis 15:14).
Since none of the Jews of the Dor Hamidbor worked
hard for what they had and none of them could convince themselves that their
money was a product of “kochi ve’otzem yodi,” why would they not
willingly give some of it back to the One who enriched them?
Apparently, conceit and selfishness are a part of the human
makeup, and anyone who has not benefitted from studying Torah and mussar
and developing his middos is unable to part with his possessions to
benefit others.
We look back at the people who were enriched by looting the
Mitzriyim and wonder how they could not appreciate the source of their wealth.
Yet, others from different generations can view us similarly. They can easily
say, “Look at the wealth Hashem gave the Jewish people at this time of history.
Look at how Hashem removed so many of the impediments to Jewish people being
accepted among the general populace and accumulating great wealth.” They may
wonder about us, “How can it be that everyone didn’t realize that Hashem had
blessed them? Why didn’t they share more of it? Why did they think that they
were entitled to ignore the cries of the poor and needy?”
Sure, there are many generous people among us, and it is
thanks to them that Torah is built and maintained. It is to their credit that
there are so many charitable organizations that help people deal with every
conceivable need. Who knows if charity was ever distributed on the level it is
now? The amount of tzedakah that is given out in our day has virtually
no parallel in any time of history.
When you look at the buildings that have been erected for yeshivos,
shuls and other mosdos, think about the people who paid for them.
Think about the Holocaust survivors who came here empty-handed and what they
accomplished. Think about how they brought up their children and grandchildren
to give and build and care about other Jews. And then think about what your
role is in the rebirth and rebuilding of Yiddishkeit. Consider what you
can do for others. You’ll be benefitting yourself, your family, and the entire
Torah world.
If you want to merit a share in the Bais Hashem in
your area, if you want to merit a Mishkon and a Mikdosh, you have
to be a person of nedivus halev, thoughtful generosity. That comes by
recognizing that all that we have is a gift and acknowledging that the Torah is
made of halachos pertaining to bein adam lachaveiro, not only bein
adam laMakom. We have to care about others. We have to seek to benefit
fellow Yidden.
A story is told about the Chofetz Chaim, who called
an urgent meeting of communal leaders to discuss and solve a pressing matter.
Although the Chazon Ish was very young and virtually unknown at the
time, he was invited and participated in the gathering. The Chofetz Chaim noticed
that the Chazon Ish did not seem like he wanted to be there and was
anxiously awaiting the meeting’s culmination so he could return to his Gemara.
The Chofetz Chaim turned to the Chazon Ish
and said, “You should know that I am aware that were I to lock myself away and
only study Torah, I would grow to much greater heights in Torah and avodas
Hashem, but our task in this world is not to think only about ourselves.
Man wasn’t created for himself, but rather to bring satisfaction to Hashem, who
desires that we help others. This is compounded when dealing with matters that
affect the community.”
This is the way tzaddikim and good people conduct
themselves.
Many years later, the Chazon Ish, already living in
Bnei Brak, was raising money for an important cause. He asked a certain rov to
visit a wealthy man in Tel Aviv to solicit a donation from him. The rov
didn’t want to go and said, “An adam gadol is needed to explain the
importance of this cause to him.”
The Chazon Ish wasn’t impressed with the excuse. He
said to the rov, “How does a person become an adam gadol? When he
succeeds in a mission such as this one.”
When we care about others and give of ourselves to help
people, we grow.
An adam gadol is one who understands priorities and
acts upon them. MK Shlomo Lorencz was leaving on one of his many fundraising
trips abroad and went to the Chazon Ish to bid farewell and ask if there
was anything he needed done before he left. The Chazon Ish told him that
there was a small yeshiva that was experiencing a specific problem. He
asked Rabbi Lorencz to ensure that the issue was resolved before leaving.
Rabbi Lorencz asked what was so important about helping
this small yeshiva. He wanted to know if it was something really important
that had to be taken care of before he was to leave. Helping some tiny yeshiva
he never even heard of didn’t seem to fit the bill.
The Chazon Ish told him, “Yeshivos are of
utmost importance. What happens outside of yeshivos is of secondary
consideration. Our main focus is on yeshivos, and not only large, famous
ones, but every yeshiva, even the smallest ones, even those that are
taking their first baby steps, such as this one, which you never heard of. They
are paramount, and it is worth devoting time and working to ensure that the
issues are cleared up and the talmidim can enter their building and
begin learning.”
Yeshivos, botei medrash and shuls
are what we have today in place of the Mishkon and Mikdosh. We
have to appreciate them and seek to spend time there engaged in Torah, tefillah
and seeking to become closer to Hashem. We enter them with our small sparks of kedusha
and the Shechinah, and we team up with the other people there and
their sparks, together lighting a torch of kedusha that brings light to
our lives and to the world.
And just as the Mikdosh, in its time, served as a
location from where holiness spread out to Klal Yisroel, so too, great tzaddikim
are able to accept Hashem’s influence, and from them it spreads to those who
have properly prepared themselves to accept it.
As we study Parshas Terumah, let us dig beneath the
surface and learn its lessons. As we learn the halachos pertaining to
the construction of the Mishkon, let us feel its absence and strive to
improve the way we conduct ourselves with each other. Let us seek to keep our
sparks alive and work to be proper hosts for the Shechinah. Let us
contribute to the mikdoshei me’at we have been blessed with and appreciate
that they are hosts for the Shechinah.
Let us care about others and do what we can to help other
people and the matzav in general. By doing so, we will bring joy to
others and to ourselves, and we will bring the world closer to the day when the
Bais Hamikdosh will be rebuilt with the coming of Moshiach very
soon.