The Joy of Clarity
By Rabbi Pinchos Lipschutz
Purim will
live on for eternity as a day of joy and festivity. After the arrival of Moshiach,
the other Yomim Tovim will no longer be celebrated, other than to be
remembered as part of the golus past.
Even
estranged Jews appreciate the awe of Rosh Hashanah and listen to the cry
of the shofar, but they have a hard time with Purim. They wonder
how this can be a holiday. And what is the deal with the alcohol, the clowning
around, and the lack of decorum?
The
closer we are to the source of joy, the more joyous we are. When we attend a simcha,
the better we know the people who are celebrating, the more joyous we are
and the more we participate. People who complain about attending simchos
demonstrate that they are incapable of having strong relationships or caring
enough about other people to add the joy to their lives.
The
more we are able to appreciate the source of the happiness of Purim, the
happier we are and the longer we are able to experience that joy. People
privileged to live Torah lives, connected to the meaning and flavor of
life, experience Purim joy with added delight.
What
is it about Purim that generates so much joy and elation? Even
today, when people are dangerously apathetic, and so many hearts are numb and
without emotion, we can still sense the simcha. There is a mitzvah
to be happy on the Yomim Tovim. On Purim, it is so much easier
for all to feel it.
The
message of Purim is something everyone can identify with and appreciate.
Like
a beacon of light on a dark, stormy night, Purim shines into our world.
Everyone has struggles. We have days when events threaten to engulf us. We
encounter people and situations that we find intolerable. We can feel lost and
abandoned. We wonder why there is so much hate in our world and why people seem
intent on destroying others. It bothers us and brings on a certain sense of
despondency. We pine for proper leadership to fill vacuums and right wrongs. We
need so much money to survive. Most of us endure many struggles to make ends
meet. Every penny we earn is swallowed up, and now inflation is taking an even
larger bite out of our wallets, making our struggle much more difficult. There
are also many who are sick or suffering in other ways and eagerly await a yeshuah.
Yet,
when Purim comes, worries are set aside and everyone joins in the
celebration.
The
Baal Shem Tov traveled through a tiny, forlorn town consisting of a few
farmhouses and fields. The residents there were suffering from a severe
drought. The lack of rainwater threatened the crops, and their livelihoods were
in jeopardy. If the drought would continue, they would all starve.
When
the Baal Shem Tov went into the shul, he saw the entire town
–men, women and children – gathered there, listening respectfully to the words
of a visiting maggid. The preacher was castigating the people for their
misdeeds, telling them that their offensive behavior was causing Heaven to withhold
the blessing of rain.
When
the maggid finished, the Baal Shem Tov rose to speak. “What do
you want from these people?” he asked the maggid. “They work long, hard
hours, laboring under the blazing sun all day. When they have a few spare
minutes, they rush to the shul to daven and learn a bit. What do
you want from them? What type of message are you giving them?”
Turning
to the crowd of farmers and their families, the Baal Shem Tov said, “Tayere
Yidden, this is what you must know. We have a Creator with unlimited
abilities, and He can do whatever He wants. He loves us and wants to shower us
with blessings. So come, Yidden. Let us dance.”
The
Baal Shem Tov led the simple townspeople in joyous dance. The circle of
Jews began singing their thanks and praise to the Master of the Universe.
When
they were done and left the shul to return home, they were greeted by a
driving rain that turned the roads and fields into mud.
It
rained and rained, drenching the happy townspeople as they danced their way
home.
The
Baal Shem Tov gave them reason to dance. The Creator loves us and wants
the best for us. He can do anything.
This
knowledge is like a bolt of lightning that lights up the night.
Throughout
the year, we are confronted by various types of people and the vast spectrum of
human behavior, from righteous and noble to incorrigibly evil and the many
shades in between.
We
live in a world where up is down and down is up. We have to resist being bowled
over and led astray. No matter what comes over us and the world, we must
maintain our equilibrium and faith.
Rav
Yitzchok Hutner told of two men who were lost overnight in a forest. To survive
in the thick blanket of darkness and terror, one man figured out how to see in
the darkness, while the other sharpened his hearing to be able to perceive when
danger was approaching.
Which
of the two learned a more valuable skill?
Rav
Hutner answered that it was the one who developed the ability to perceive
sounds and identify them who possessed the more crucial expertise, because in the
morning, when the sun comes up and the world is bathed in light, that skill
will still be helpful to them as they remain lost in the forest.
When
Moshiach comes, the ability to see in darkness will no longer be
necessary, as the world will be filled with light. But the ability to hear the
knock of Hashgocha and understand that every sound is an announcement of
Hashem’s Presence will always be useful. Purim won’t ever go away, as it
is the Yom Tov that teaches us to listen and hear the deeper message.
The
story of Purim occurred in hester. What was really happening was
hidden behind a façade of what appeared to be happening. What everyone saw and
believed and read about and discussed was far removed from reality. What they
perceived as darkness was actually light concealed.
We
all have ups and downs. Sometimes things happen that cause us much sadness and
pain, because we see them bringing us insurmountable financial loss, physical
illness, or senseless aggravation we feel we don’t deserve. We fret and worry
and despair. But when the fog clears and we are able to properly understand
what happened, many times, in hindsight, we are able to appreciate that what
happened was a blessing in disguise.
Other
times, after davening and placing our faith in Hashem, believing that He
cares for us and does what is best for us, we are spared from the calamity we
were sure was headed our way.
When
good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people, the Megillah
reminds us that appearances are deceptive. The Megillah reminds us that
everything that happens is part of a Divine plan, which we can’t expect to
understand until the entire story has unfolded.
That
message resonates wherever Jews find themselves. As we masquerade about
exchanging mishloach manos with friends and distributing Purim gelt,
we tap into the holiness and message of the holy day.
It
is a message that never loses its timeliness.
Each
year, as we study the Megillah and the story of Purim, we gain a
new appreciation of what took place during those critical times and its
relevance to us today. We gain a new perspective on life.
We
have been close to the brink so many times yet have always been allowed to
climb back up. How can we not rejoice?
One
year, on Purim, surrounded by multitudes of chassidim hanging on
to his every word, the Chiddushei Horim began speaking. This is what he
said: “When we start reading the Megillah, we might wonder why we are
being told stories about some Persian king. Why do we care that he feasted for
three years after being crowned? We continue reading and are told stories about
a queen who refused to attend a feast and her punishment. Then we read about
the procedure of finding a new queen. And we wonder: Why do we need to know this?”
The
rebbe was quiet, deep in thought. He sat up and answered his questions.
“In the time of Moshiach,” he said, “many strange things will happen.
Nobody will understand what is happening. And then, suddenly, they will realize
that it was all tied to the geulah.”
To
say that strange occurrences are taking place in our day is an understatement.
We are confounded by the daily happenings, so many of which seem to make no
sense. Soon the day will arrive when everything will become clear. For now, we
have Purim.
Over
the past couple of years, the world has had a string of extraordinary
occurrences. As soon as one was gone, another popped up. Most prominently, a
pandemic circled the world, killing too many people we knew and sickening many
others. Some have not yet recovered. Schools were closed and then children were
forced to wear masks. Who knows when they will catch up on what they missed?
Some
people became very wealthy from the pandemic and government largesse, but many
more lost their businesses and sources of income. Stocks plunged along with New
York City real estate. Not everyone came back whole from the experience.
Who
can forget the calamitous tragedy of Lag Ba’omer last year in Meron, so many
lives taken in an instant, so many lives changed, upended. So much sadness in
one small, holy place.
A
couple of weeks ago, Russia, in a move many see as irrational, invaded a
neighboring country and began waging a fierce war. The general peace that has
reigned in Europe since the Second World War has been shattered, and it is
possible that the world order has been changed. The war can have serious
repercussions for hundreds of millions of people, and besides the terrible
human toll it has already extracted, it has many other repercussions for people
everywhere.
We
hope and pray that these and the other tragic occurrences are stirrings of Moshiach,
as Hashem prepares the world for the unveiling of the great light of geulah.
We
all have stuff going on in our lives that we would love to wish away. There are
many problems awaiting solutions. Life isn’t always perfect. We can get down.
We can find it impossible to laugh and hard to learn Torah. There is an urge to
withdraw from other people, pull down the shades, and cut ourselves off from
the rat race.
But
on this day, we all become Purim Yidden, connecting with each other,
smiling, and exchanging gifts, drinks, hugs, and good vertlach. The
stronger and more faithful among us endeavor to hold on to the day and maintain
their Purim belief, enabling them to live wholesome lives.
On
Purim, we disentangle from our usual habits, urges, appetites and things
we think are life’s necessities, and are enveloped by Purim, its joy and
its spirit. We get energized. We smile, laugh, sing and dance, because on this
day, we have it all figured out and nobody can touch or harm us.
Esther
is repeatedly tested throughout the period in which the story takes place. Each
time, it appears that there is no way she can outmaneuver the evil facing her.
She is galvanized by her hopes rather than her fears. She relies upon the sage
counsel of her uncle, the Rosh Sanhedrin. With Mordechai’s support, fear
can’t paralyze her.
Faced
with situations from which we think there is no way we can extricate ourselves
without getting hurt, we should remember Queen Esther and gain strength from
the knowledge that by doing the right thing, she saved her people from certain
destruction. By following Mordechai’s instructions, she became immortalized in
the consciousness of the Jewish people as a righteous and strong woman who put
the fate of her people ahead of her personal safety and happiness.
The
Jews of Shushan taught a message that is passed down through the ages. They
felt doomed. The lot was drawn and they thought their fate was sealed. And
then, thanks to the leadership of Mordechai and Esther, Hashem heard
their tefillos and accepted their teshuvah. A day marked for
sadness and death was transformed into a day of celebration and deliverance for
all time.
We
can barely imagine what Purim was like in the Warsaw Ghetto in 1941.
Many people there made their way to Rav Klonimus Kalman of Piaceczna, searching
for direction. Looking around and sizing up their situation, they wondered how
they could be expected to smile on this day, or if they were obligated to.
He
looked at his brethren with his holy eyes and told them that the Zohar
states that Purim is compared to Yom Kippurim. He said that just
as on Yom Kippur we are commanded to fast whether we would like to or
not, so too, we must be joyous on Purim, no matter who is marching
around outside and how bleak things appear.
The
Rosh Hashanah l’shonim, the first day of Tishrei, is preceded by
a month of teshuvah. The first day of Nissan is Rosh Hashanah
l’regolim, marking the beginning of the annual cycle of Yomim Tovim.
The Sefas Emes suggests that just like the teshuvah in Elul
prepares us for Rosh Hashanah, the month prior to the Rosh Hashanah
l’regolim, Adar, is a teshuvah period.
But
there is a marked difference between the two periods of repentance. During Elul,
the teshuvah is brought on by fear of the impending judgment. During Adar,
it begins as teshuvah mei’ahavah, repentance brought on by love,
joy and anticipation.
On
Purim, we are reminded that just as our ancestors were delivered from
despair, so may we be spared of our burdens.
The
simcha of Purim returns us to Hashem and sets us back on the
proper way. We are reminded that there is no reason for despondency, and that
negativism and pessimism are deleterious not only to our physical health, but
also to our spiritual health and general wellbeing.
Even
when it appears dark, the sun is shining somewhere, though it is not apparent
to us. We must know that just as the sun will shine again over us, so will the
clouds and darkness dissipate and things will straighten out for us.
It’s
Purim. Dance, smile and be happy. Look at the positive. Be optimistic.
Purim
is not an escape from reality. Purim is reality. Purim is
a reminder of the reality that empowers the Jewish people with the clarity and
awareness to continue on.
When
we permit the spirit and lessons of Purim to remain with us after the
sun has gone down, we become changed, happy, holy and blessed.
Permit
the spirit of Purim to overtake you.
Before
tekias shofar, the Jews of Salant would marvel at the change in the
features of their rov, Rav Zundel. As he grasped the shofar, his
face would radiate such holiness that it was difficult to look at him.
The
Salanter Yidden asked him about the change that had come over him. Upon
hearing what they said about his shining countenance, he sighed. “My rebbi, Rav
Chaim Volozhiner, looked this way every morning as he lifted his tefillin
out of the bag. Alas, I only experience this raised level of kedusha once
a year.”
On
Purim, look at the faces around you. At least on this day of the
year, we see the truth. Look at the faces and you’ll see inner joy. You will
see the happiness of belief. The joy of clarity. All year round, people have
various looks on their faces, but the look you see on Purim is the
truest face of all.
Let
us resolve this year to do our best to maintain that level of holiness and joy,
rooted in faith, all year round.
Ah freilichen
Purim. Ah gantz yohr freilach.
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