Learning to Appreciate
By Rabbi Pinchos Lipschutz
The Gemara teaches that Chananyah, Mishoel and
Azaryah were inspired by the frogs of Mitzrayim to give up their lives al
kiddush Hashem.
The Gemara in Pesochim (53b) explains that
they learned a kal vachomer from the actions of the frogs during makkas
tzefardeia, when the frogs jumped into the flaming Egyptian ovens.
They analyzed the pesukim and concluded that the
frogs could have fulfilled their obligation by simply hopping around Mitzrayim
and making a general nuisance of themselves. For them to fulfill G-d’s will
during that makkah, it was not necessary for them to be roasted to
death.
After all, Chananyah, Mishoel and Azaryah reasoned, frogs
don’t have the commandment of kiddush Hashem, yet they carried their
devotion to this extreme. Certainly, Chananyah, Mishoel and Azaryah who were
obligated to be mekadeish sheim Hashem should be prepared to die al
kiddush Hashem.
My great-uncle writes in his classic sefer Nachal
Yehudah that since animals are not baalei bechirah, they do not
receive reward for their acts.
If he is correct, how is it that Chananya, Mishoel and
Azaryah assumed that an element of free choice was manifest in the manner in
which the frogs carried out their shlichus? If animals act purely on
instinct, how could the three nevi’im have drawn any kind of lesson or
inspiration from their acts?
There are instances when the Torah ascribes human
attributes and motives to animals. One example is regarding petter chamor,
the mitzvah to redeem a firstborn donkey.
Chazal explain: “Why are firstborn
donkeys set apart from firstborn horses or firstborn camels? First, because the
Torah decreed it so. Second, they helped Am Yisroel during Yetzias
Mitzrayim, for there was not a single Jew who did not have 90 donkeys
loaded with the silver and gold of Mitzrayim” (Bechoros 5b).
Chazal are saying that the Torah
commanded us to redeem every firstborn donkey for all generations in
recognition of the help these animals extended to our forefathers when they
were departing Egypt. Stated simply, Chazal are saying that this mitzvah
is a way of showing hakoras hatov to the donkeys.
To imprint this lesson in our minds and on our hearts, the
Torah bestows on firstborn donkeys the kedusha of a cheftzah shel
mitzvah, the sanctity of an object that can be used to perform a mitzvah.
If an animal has no bechirah and thus merits no
reward or punishment, why do we reward the donkey for having helped us in
Mitzrayim?
The dog, too, received a reward for its good behavior
toward the Jews who were leaving Egypt. As the posuk says, “Be a holy
people to Me. Do not eat flesh torn off by a predator in the field. Cast it to
the dogs” (Shemos 22:30).
Rashi, commenting on this posuk,
asks, “Why does the Torah specify the dog? To teach that Hashem does not
withhold reward from any creature. As it is written, ‘A dog will not even
whine to the Jewish People’ (Shemos 11:7). In return, Hashem said,
‘Give [the dog] its reward.’”
The question, once again, is obvious: If an animal has no bechirah
and thus earns no reward or punishment, why do we reward the dogs for having
helped us in Mitzrayim?
A closer examination of the aforementioned Gemara in
Maseches Pesochim may help us understand the lesson derived from the
frogs during makkas tzefardeia, as well as the purpose behind the
rewards bestowed on donkeys and dogs. It may also explain Moshe Rabbeinu’s
reluctance to strike the water and the earth prior to the makkos of dam
and kinnim.
The Gemara doesn’t actually say that Chananya,
Mishoel and Azaryah learned a kal vachomer from the tzefarde’im.
The Gemara is discussing Todus ish Romi and asks whether he was a gavrah
rabbah, a great man, or a baal egrofin, a tough person who people
were scared of.
The Gemara proves that Todus was a gavrah rabbah
because of the way he searched for the source of the mesirus nefesh
displayed by Chananya, Mishoel and Azaryah to die al kiddush Hashem.
Todus darshened that they derived their sense of obligation from the pesukim
that describe the way the tzefarde’im went about their duty in
Mitzrayim.
He reasoned that if tzefarde’im, which are not
commanded to be mekadeish Hashem, were moser nefesh, certainly
we, who are commanded to be mekadeish Hashem, are obligated to put our
lives on the line.
How does the Gemara deduce from this teaching of his
that Todus was a gavrah rabbah? If we can assume that what it says in
the sefer Nachal Yehudah is true, and animals have no bechirah
and thus no reward and punishment, then it must be that Todus didn’t learn his kal
vachomer from the way the frogs actually acted. Rather, he learned his kal
vachomer from the way the pesukim describe the frogs’ behavior. From
the way the Torah detailed how the frogs swarmed about to every corner of
Mitzrayim, Todus determined that there was a lesson to be learned from that
description for Jews of all time, including nevi’im.
A person who examines pesukim so carefully, with the
aim of deriving inspiration and moral teaching from the stories in the Torah,
is a gavrah rabbah. Someone who can extrapolate such timeless lessons
cannot be a baal egrofim.
The salient message is that the precepts commanding us to
redeem firstborn donkeys and to throw the bosor treifah to the dogs are
not intended to reward the animals, but to teach us a serious lesson.
Moshe Rabbeinu could not turn the Yam Suf into blood
during makkas dam, for, as Rashi explains, “The Yam Suf
protected Moshe when he was cast into it [as a baby]. For this reason, he did
not bring about the makkos of dam or tzefardeiah and they
were done instead by Aharon” (Rashi, Shemos 7:19).
Likewise, Moshe Rabbeinu did not strike the ground to bring
forth lice during the plague of kinnim because, as Rashi
explains, the dirt “protected him when he killed the Egyptian and buried him in
the sand” (Rashi, Shemos 8:12).
Hakoras hatov is a preamble to Torah. We treat
donkeys and dogs differently not to reward them for what they did in Mitzrayim,
but to train ourselves to acknowledge those who did us favors and express
appreciation for those acts of kindness.
The dogs don’t know the difference, and neither do the
donkeys. The ground wouldn’t have any way of knowing that Moshe struck it, and
neither would the Yam Suf. The point is that Moshe himself knew.
Striking something to which you are indebted demonstrates ingratitude. To
ingrain into us the middah of hakoras hatov, we treat these
inanimate objects with deference.
Chazal say, “Ro’asah shifcha al
hayom mah shelo ra’ah Yechezkel ben Boozi...”
The maidservants at Kriyas Yam Suf merited seeing
the greatest visions of G-d’s wonders, even greater than those of the nevi’im.
How can that be?
In order to be a makir tov, you have to be mokir
tov. In order to recognize greatness in this world, you need to be a person
who is appreciative of the goodness that is out there. You need to be the type
of person who appreciates the good that is in the world. In order to qualify as
a nobler kind of person who can perceive the good, you have to first train
yourself to express gratitude for the good you have received.
The humblest servants at the time of Yetzias Mitzrayim
had absorbed the lesson taught by Moshe Rabbeinu when he couldn’t strike the
inanimate objects that had protected him in his time of need. They had learned
that although dirt and water have no feelings or bechirah, we still must
show appreciation for the benefits we received from them. And we must draw a
lesson from them when warranted.
People who are makir tov to water and sand can learn
lessons from frogs as well. Such people are anoshim gedolim, great
people. The shfachos al hayom had been so deeply inculcated with lessons
from Moshe and his ethical conduct that by the time of Kriyas Yam Suf,
they were able to see the gadlus haBorei in a way never repeated by man.
The ultimate hakoras hatov is to appreciate everything
that Hakadosh Boruch Hu placed in this world for our benefit. The
epitome of hakoras hatov is to recognize the chassodim that are
bestowed upon us by G-d, moment by moment, every day of our lives.
But there is more. The Medrash Rabbah (Shemos
1:8) and Rabbeinu Bachya on the same posuk say, “One who denies the
favors his friend does for him will eventually deny what Hashem does for him.”
One day he dismisses the favors his friend has performed for him, and the next
day he dismisses all the good that his Creator has done for him.
In order to be a good Jew, one must be a good person. Man
comes into this world alone and helpless. That dependency is meant to teach him
a lesson. We are not alone. We are part of a group and we are all members of
one large family. We have no hope of surviving on our own merit or resources.
We need people’s favors. We need services that other people provide in order to
stay alive. Life is sustained by give and take. We have to be prepared to
accept the assistance of other people if we are to live a meaningful life.
Kol Yisroel areivim zeh bozeh, but
friendship and brotherhood come with obligations. Sometimes you help your
friend and sometimes you have to let your friend help you. You cannot live by
yourself. Some people have a problem with that, because they don’t want to be
encumbered with a sense of obligation to anyone. Some would rather experience
misery and loneliness than accept anything that would produce a feeling of
indebtedness to another person.
To be a gavrah rabbah, you have to be prepared to
learn from others. As our nation was being formed, that lesson was rigorously
instilled along with the imperative to appreciate all we have and all who
helped us along the way.
Let us appreciate what Hashem does for us and thank Him for
the blessings He showers upon us daily.
Let us thank our friends for their friendship and all they
have done for us. Let us show gratitude to our parents for investing so much
effort into raising us and enabling us to become who we are today. Let us
demonstrate our appreciation for our rabbeim, moros and teachers
for inspiring us and helping us discover the beauty of Torah learning and the
Torah way of life.
Let us thank and appreciate our spouses, who help us in so
many ways that we have come to take for granted, and our children, simply for
being who they are. Let us not forget all our family members and loved ones.
Too often, it is only when something bad happens that
people appreciate all the good they had until that point. We tend not to
appreciate our blessings until they are taken away from us.
Perhaps, if we would be better makirei tov and
wouldn’t need to suffer tragedy in order to appreciate Hashem’s
steady kindness, we would merit to experience more times of joy and fewer
periods of sadness.
Let us all be thankful for what we have and be more vocal about expressing
our appreciation. In that merit, may we be zoche to much more simcha
in our lives.