Generational
By Rabbi
Pinchos Lipschutz
The essence of the Haggadah
and the entirety of Pesach is the
relationship between father and son and the obligation for a father to transmit
to his son the story of the geulah
from Mitzrayim. The Torah and Chazal
prescribe different ways to speak to different children and lay out the format
for the Seder evening conversation.
The people of Adopt-a-Kollel were kind enough to gift me Haggadah Nifle’osecha Asicha from Rav
Yitzchok Zilberstein. I opened it up to the page on which he tells the
following story.
One Shabbos morning
a few years ago, an old man and his son entered a shul in Petach Tikvah. They stood frozen at the door, gazing at the
people davening Pesukei Dezimra. Finally, they felt comfortable enough to find
themselves seats and sit down. There was no need for a siddur, because they both couldn’t daven, as they had been locked behind the Iron Curtain for seventy
years.
The older man paid attention to the chazzan and seemed to enjoy his tunes and chanting, while the
younger one waited for his father to lose interest so they could go back home.
He’d have to wait.
As the laining progressed,
the old man started paying particular attention. All of a sudden, he started
screaming towards the gabbai in a
beautiful Litvishe Yiddish, “I must
have an aliyah. Please, I must have
an aliyah.” The kind gabbai acquiesced and called the senior
guest to the Torah at the next opportunity.
The old man borrowed a tallis
and a yarmulka and made his way to
the bimah. He pushed away the siddur that was given to him to read the
brachos and, with a deep and
emotional voice, he began to slowly recite the brocha, saying each word with meaning.
When the baal korei
finished his portion, the scene repeated itself, as the man cried his way
through the words of the second brocha.
There was utter silence in the shul, as everyone fixed their eyes on the old
man standing at the bimah crying.
After davening,
people approached the guest. They asked him questions, intending to elicit his
story.
“I was born and bred in Vilna,” he began. “When I was 12-1/2,
my parents started fighting about where I should go to school. My mother wanted
me to continue in yeshiva, but my
father wanted me to go to the gymnasia school of the maskilim. He said that this way, I would learn a trade and how to
maintain my Yiddishkeit while living
among goyim.
“My father won and I was sent to that school. I began
focusing on the studies, which brought my father much satisfaction.
“My bar mitzvah
celebration was held in the large Vilna shul.
I was given the aliyah for maftir, made the birchos haTorah and lained the
haftorah. My father was beaming,
while my mother was upstairs in the ezras
noshim weeping.
“As I came down from the bimah,
Rav Chaim Ozer Grodzensky came over and shook my father’s hand, wishing mazel tov. And then he said to my
father, ‘For your benefit, let me warn you that if you do not remove your son
from the gymnasia school, generations will pass before your son will be called
to the Torah a second time!’
“My father did not obey the rov.
“Today, for some reason, I felt a pull to the shul,” the man said as he began to weep
once again. “When the baal korei
began to read the parsha, I
remembered that this is my bar mitzvah
parsha.”
He raised his voice and said, “Yidden, her vos ich zog eich. From that Shabbos of my bar mitzvah,
when I had an aliyah to the Torah,
until today is exactly seventy years [two generations]. Today is the first time
since my bar mitzvah that I received
an aliyah!
“Ay, iz der gaon geven
gerecht. Oh, what the great rov
said was so true.”
His father, back in Vilna, might have meant well. He wanted
the best for his son and thought that the Haskalah school would provide for him
the best of both worlds. But he should have listened to the rov, because if you want nachas from your children, the way to
achieve that goal is by following the Torah, as interpreted by the gedolei olam, our leaders, the people
such as Rav Chaim Ozer Grodzensky with whom Hashem blesses us in every generation.
Those who think they understand better and ignore the warnings of the rabbonim gedolim jeopardize their
ability to succeed in this world, and the next.
Pesach is an intrinsic part of our fiber.
Its mitzvos, rituals, liturgy and
special foods enrich and enhance our souls year after year.
While the Yom Tov
has a special effect on children, as we grow older we perceive new depths. Chag hacheirus becomes more
meaningful, as we appreciate its valuable messages in a different, richer way.
We increasingly realize how Pesach is
meant to equip us with new resolve to rid ourselves of chometz and cheit,
villains and tormentors. It drives us to pine ever more for the geulah, so that we might merit visiting
the home of Hashem, offering korbanos
to Him.
We recognize that we can only arrive at cheirus and geulah by
doing what is incumbent upon us and fulfilling our missions as best as we can.
We reach our potential by delving into the study of Torah and seeking messages
from great men whose lives are totally devoted to Torah and nothing else.
Sometimes, they tell us to act, and other times, they say to desist. Those who
seek the brachos of the Torah follow
it, and don’t follow the path of greater personal benefit or enjoyment, whether
they understand or not.
At the time of Krias
Yam Suf, the Jews were afraid that the Mitzriyim would catch up to them and
destroy them. They cried out to Moshe for a game plan. Instead, they were told,
“Hashem yilocheim lochem ve’atem
tacharishun. Your job at this time is to remain silent and do nothing.
Hashem will fight for you.”
Chazal state that this advice is eternal.
There are times when we must speak up and times when we must remain silent,
times to do battle and times to be passive. Our limited human intelligence is
not always able to figure out the proper course of action. How we are to act in
all times is prescribed by the Torah, as is so beautifully expressed by Shlomo
Hamelech in Koheles: “Eis livkos, ve’eis lischok... Eis le’ehov,
ve’eis lisno, eis milchomah, ve’eis shalom.” How we are to act in each “eis,” or time, is determined by the
Torah.
The Torah is a constant, but people change, every generation
is different. We have a generational obligation to speak to our children in a
language and voice they will understand, respect and follow. What worked in the
past does not necessarily work now and to assume it does risks losing touch
with those whom we love and wish to follow in our ways.
After his arrival in Eretz Yisroel, Rav Elozor Menachem Man
Shach lived in a small apartment in the Kerem Avrohom neighborhood of
Yerushalayim. The diminutive, humble man kept to himself, engaging in Torah
learning all the time and rarely opening his mouth to express an opinion on
issues of the day. His acquaintances in the Kerem shul saw him as a talmid
chochom, but few foresaw a position of leadership for the scholar.
Eventually, the poverty-stricken Rav Shach accepted a
position as a maggid shiur in Tel Aviv, grateful for the
chance to teach Torah and earn an income. Within weeks of starting the new job,
however, he detected that the leader of the place possessed an outlook that was
contrary to the views of gedolei Yisroel.
When he came upon that realization, Rav Shach immediately
resigned his position and returned home, settling back into his corner of the
small neighborhood shul where he
again spent his days and nights learning.
His rebbi, the
Brisker Rov, encouraged him that he acted properly by leaving his job and told
him that a better position would come along. “Someone who forfeits parnossah because of principle will see
brachos,” he told him.
In time, the Ponovezher Rov discovered Rav Shach, and after
living in virtual anonymity for so long, the rosh yeshiva’s rise to
leadership began, ushering in the glory era for the olam haTorah.
He was an exceedingly humble man, but when the Torah demanded
strength from him, he was strong as a lion.
Some years ago, I wrote of a dream I had before Pesach that year. In the dream, I gained
a new understanding of the posuk, “V’acharei chein yeitzu b’rechush gadol,”
in which Hashem foretold to our forefather Avrohom the future course of Jewish
history. Hashem told Avrohom that after being enslaved for many years, the Jewish
people would be freed and would depart their host country with a great
treasure.
The common understanding is that the promise of “a great
treasure” was fulfilled with the vast quantity of belongings the Jews received
from the Mitzriyim prior to being sent out.
In the dream, I thought that the rechush gadol the Jews received was the matzoh that baked on their backs as they left b’chipazon. Matzoh is not
simply a physical food. It possesses spiritual qualities and is a gift to the Bnei Yisroel. Only we have the ability
to take flour and water and transform them into a cheftzah shel mitzvah.
The Netziv of
Volozhin, in his peirush on Shir Hashirim titled “Rinah Shel Torah,” writes in the
introduction concerning the posuk which
states, “Sheishes yomim tochal matzos
uvayom hashevi’i atzeres l’Hashem Elokecha lo sa’aseh melacha - You shall
eat matzos for six days and on the
seventh you shall rest for Hashem and you shall not do any work” (Devorim 16:8).
He explains that on the first day of Pesach, the obligation to eat matzoh
is to remember that we left Mitzrayim in such haste that the bread the fleeing
Jews took along for the journey had no time to rise. He says that the
obligation related to the consumption of matzoh
the first six days of Pesach recalls
the eating of the korban mincha by the kohanim. The korbanos mincha
were brought of matzoh breads and
were never made of chometz. That was
to teach the Jewish people that in order to draw closer to Hashem and achieve a
higher level of holiness, they must reduce their involvement in the pursuits of
Olam Hazeh.
On Pesach, we
sustain ourselves with matzoh for six
days for that same higher purpose. On Pesach,
a Jew attempts to rise spiritually and become closer to Hashem.
Therefore, on the seventh and final day of the holiday, Jews
are commanded to refrain from work and to internalize the message of the six
days of eating matzoh.
Not partaking of chometz
is supposed to affect us in a fundamental way. It is supposed to change our
outlook on life and remind us of our purpose here. Eating matzoh for seven days is not something we do to fill ourselves
physically. The change in diet is meant to bring about a spiritual change in
our souls.
This message supports the idea that the matzoh is a rechush gadol.
Matzoh is a gift from Hashem that
enables us to elevate our rote observance of mitzvos to a higher dimension of avodas Hashem. Partaking of matzoh
for a week is meant to reduce our drive for physical gratification. If we heed
its message, it is truly a gift, a rechush
gadol, which has the power to uplift and purify us and draw us closer to
our Creator.
I found a similar idea in the words of the Ramchal in Derech Hashem (4:8). He says that as long as the Jews were enslaved
in Mitzrayim and living amongst the pagan population, their bodies were
darkened by the poison of impurity that overwhelmed them. When they were
finally delivered from that society - goy
mikerev goy - their bodies underwent a purification process so that they
would be able to accept the Torah and
mitzvos.
This is the reason they were commanded to refrain from
consuming chometz and to eat matzoh. The bread that we eat all year
is prepared with yeast and rises. Easier to digest and tastier, it is the
natural food of man. It feeds man’s yeitzer
hora and more base inclinations.
Klal Yisroel was commanded to refrain from eating
chometz for a week in order to
minimize the power of the yeitzer hora
and their inclination towards the physical, and to strengthen their attachment
to the spiritual.
It is impossible for people to live on this diet all year
round, and it is not Hashem’s intent. But if we maintain this diet for the
duration of Pesach while
incorporating the lessons of matzoh,
it will energize us spiritually for the remainder of the year.
Rav Aryeh Leib Schapiro of Yerushalayim writes in his sefer Chazon Lamoed that the Ramchal
connects this to the dictum of the Rambam
in Hilchos Dei’os (2:1) that a person
seeking to rectify his conduct should go to the opposite extreme of his natural
inclination, and he will then end up in the middle, where Hashem wants us to
be.
The Rambam
continues (3:1) that a person should not reason that since kinah, taavah and kavod - jealousy, evil desires and the
craving for honor - lead to man’s demise from this world, he should therefore
adopt the extremes of self-denial, refusing to eat meat or drink wine, marry,
live in a nice house or wear nice clothes. Pagan priests lived this way.
According to the Rambam, it is
forbidden to follow this path; one who does is called a sinner.
The Netziv’s and
the Ramchal’s understanding of Pesach is in accord with the words of
the Rambam. While it is undesirable
for people to live this way all year round, if one takes a temporary turn to
the extreme, it will help him return to the middle, where we all belong.
The Yom Tov of Pesach provides a respite from the
pressures that govern our daily lives. Pesach
is one week of the year that frees us from the yeitzer hora and the pursuits that drive us throughout the year,
which lead to dead ends, disappointment and depression.
Matzoh is indeed a rechush gadol, a treasure of the Jewish people. Matzoh weakens our evil inclinations and
strengthens our inherent goodness. Matzoh
has the ability to raise us above our preoccupation with the mundane.
Pesach is not meant to be a holiday of
gorging and self-indulgence. On the contrary, Pesach is the time given to us to refrain to a certain degree from
such pursuits and to absorb the lesson of the matzoh.
Following a week of such elevated behavior, we continue along
that pattern as we count to Shavuos,
when we mark the acceptance of the Torah as the ultimate gift from G-d to man.
It is only after the week of matzoh
and seven weeks of Sefirah that we
can achieve the highest possible levels of spiritual accomplishment.
If we take the words of the great Netziv and Ramchal to
heart and properly observe the mitzvos
of Pesach, and we review the lessons
the matzoh can teach us, its
influence and inspiration will long remain with us, giving us the strength to
rise above whatever challenges we face throughout the rest of the year.
Gedolim such as Rav Chaim Ozer, Rav Shach,
the Brisker Rov, the Netziv and the Ramchal light up our way and provide
direction and inspiration for us to follow if we wish to enjoy life the way
Hashem intends us to and if we wish to be successful in all we do.
Despite all we have been through, a constant in Torah life is
that those who seek lives of blessings follow the words of Torah giants. In our
day as well, despite the prevalence of so much superficiality, cynicism,
pessimism and negativity, when it comes to the bottom line, people who adhere
to Torah know that wisdom is found by those who dedicate their lives to the
pure pursuit of Torah and mitzvos.
May we merit to be among them and to follow them, living
lives of steady aliyah.
This story took place on Erev
Pesach seventy-five years ago, in the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp. A
couple of weeks before Yom Tov, the
Bluzhever Rebbe, Rav Yisroel Spira, placed his life in jeopardy and approached
the murderous head of the camp, Commandant Hass. He asked permission for forty
men to bake matzoh for Pesach. He asked the Nazi to supply them
with wheat and in return they would forgo their daily ration of bread for eight
days.
Surprisingly, the Nazi examined the request seriously,
without issuing any threats of punishment. However, he said that since the
German Reich was run in a very orderly fashion, he would have to get clearance
from Berlin. A week later, the response came from Berlin and the request was
approved.
After returning to the camp from their body-breaking labor,
the rebbe and his group assembled a
small oven and began grinding wheat kernels to make flour. They mixed the flour
with water and quickly kneaded the mixture, rolling out matzos to bake in their tiny oven. Flames danced atop the branches
fueling the oven and the holy work of baking matzos for Pesach in
Bergen-Belsen was underway.
Suddenly, the commandant burst into the room, screaming at
the Jews like a wild man and breaking everything and everyone he saw. His eyes
fixed on those of the rebbe, and he
beat him to a pulp. When he was done, the 56-year-old rebbe was barely hanging on to life.
The historic attempt ended disastrously.
The next night, the people sat down to a “Seder” in the rebbe’s barracks. They had everything – well, almost everything.
The rebbe knew the Haggadah by heart, and he was going to
lead the Seder. For wine, they were
going to drink the slop the Nazis called coffee. There was no shortage of maror,
with bitterness everywhere. The rebbe
let it be known that he was able to retrieve and save a very small piece of matzoh. They were set.
When it came time at the Seder
to eat matzah, everyone assumed that
the rebbe would be the one to perform
the mitzvah and eat the small piece
he had rescued. After all, he was the oldest, it was his idea to bake matzos to being with, and he had risked
his life to obtain permission for it. Not only that, but he was a tzaddik, he was leading the Seder, and he was the one who had saved
the piece. But they were wrong.
After proclaiming “motzie
matzah,” the rebbe looked around
the room, as if he was trying to determine who is the most appropriate person
to eat the matzoh. A widow, Mrs.
Kotziensky, stood up and said, “Since upon this night we engage in transmitting
our traditions from one generation to the next, I propose that my young son be
the one to eat the matzoh.”
The rebbe agreed.
“This night,” he said, “is all about teaching the future generations about Yetzias Mitzrayim. We will give the
child the matzoh.”
After they were freed, the widow approached the Bluzhever
Rebbe. She needed help. Someone had
proposed a shidduch for her, but she
had no way to find out about the man. Maybe, she said, the rebbe could help her. “Can you find out who he is? Can you see if
he is appropriate for me and if I am appropriate for him?”
“What is his name?” asked the rebbe.
The woman responded, “Yisroel Spira.”
The rebbe said to
her, “Yes, I know him well. It is a good idea that you should get to know him.”
She returned to the shadchan
and gave her approval to set up the match. When the woman showed up at the
right address, standing before her was none other than Rav Yisroel Spira, the
man she knew as the Bluzhever Rebbe!
A short time later, they married, and the little boy who ate matzah in Bergen-Belsen became the rebbe’s son and eventual successor.
Which spiritual attributes did the rebbe see in that woman that led him to marry her? When asked, the rebbe answered that in the cauldron of
Bergen-Belsen, where the horizon was measured in minutes and the future was a
day at a time, a woman who believed in the nitzchiyus
of Am Yisroel, that our people is
eternal, and who worried for the future generation was someone with whom it was
worthy to perpetuate the golden chain.
Thankfully, we aren’t tested the way those holy people were
that night in Bergen-Belsen. Our matzos
come easy. For a few dollars, we can have as many as we want. We can drink wine
without fearing a pogrom. We can eat maror
and not live it. We don’t have to make awful choices.
We can sit as kings and queens at the Seder, surrounded by different generations, concentrating on doing
our best to transmit our glorious heritage to the future generations, ensuring
that they know the story of Yetzias
Mitzrayim and Avodim Hayinu.
May we merit much nachas and simcha, cheirus and
freedom, kedusha and mitzvos, at the Seder and every day.