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Rabbi Pinchos Lipschutz
There are many dozens of
explanations of the teaching of Chazal that the Yom Tov of Purim
is similar to Yom Kippur, though that is not the point of this column.
However, I do wonder how we are supposed to be when Purim is done. Since
Purim is similar to Yom Kippur, it stands to reason that they are
meant to accomplish a similar goal. What is it?
After engaging in the days of Elul
and the Aseres Yemei Teshuvah, when Yom Kippur arrives we are
prepared for tasks of the holy day and spend 24 hours perfecting ourselves.
If we had conducted ourselves
according to the halachos of the day, as Yom Kippur ends we
should be cleansed of our sins and prepared to lead better lives.
By the end of the day, we have a
clear understanding of our obligations and where we stand in relationship to
our tasks in this world.
We arrive at the conclusion of Purim
very differently. We begin increasing our joy as the month of Adar
begins. In order to be happier despite the many challenges life presents, we
need to grow in emunah and bitachon. The greater and more real
our faith in Hashem is, the easier it is for us to relate to our personal hills
and valleys, for we recognize that everything that happens is by design and
nothing is by chance.
There is a reason we struggle.
There is a reason we work hard. There is a reason our kids get sick and there
is a reason we get sick. There is a reason our neighbor has an expensive car
and we have a cheap one. Everything in life is for a reason. Knowing that life
is not a haphazard collection of minutes, days, months and years helps us get
through the drag and drudgery that often accompany our sojourn through life.
So to make ourselves increasingly
happier each day of Adar, we study and work on chovos halevavos,
our duties of faith, and when Purim arrives and we thoroughly become
familiar with its story and many lessons, we are strengthened in our beliefs
that everything that transpires in this world is orchestrated by Hashem, who
seeks the best for us.
Then, by performing the mitzvos
of Purim, we gain further clarity of our obligations to ourselves and to
each other. Topping everything off with the drinking of wine at the mishteh
hayayin, we gain clarity with respect to our sense of purpose and
obligation. Wine removes the dirt from our lenses and helps us see things in a
way we usually don’t.
At the conclusion of Purim,
we should experience the same type of clarity regarding our obligations in the
world as we would after Yom Kippur. What we reach on Yom Kippur through
seriousness, we accomplish on Purim through joy. After the avodah
of Purim, we should feel so spiritually high that we can to seek to draw
that joy into our souls and have reserves of simcha available
at all times.
The Shela explains
that Binyomin was the only one of the shevotim who did not bow
to Eisov. When a person bows, he accepts some degree of the power possessed by
the person or object he is bowing to. All of the shevotim, except
Binyomin, bowed to Eisov, and thus, to a certain degree, Eisov was able to harm
them, and maintain a hold on them, with his powers of tumah.
Shmuel Hanovi anointed Shaul
Hamelech king, because, as a descendant of Binyomin, he was confident that
Shaul would be able to remove the effect of Amaleik, the descendant of Eisov,
from Am Yisroel. However, Shaul sinned and failed in his mission.
Mordechai Hatzaddik took over
where Shaul left off (see Medrash, Esther Rabbah 10:14). As a
descendant of Binyomin, he was also untouched by Eisov and Amaleik and was able
to stand up to Haman and remove Amaleik’s hold. With strength inherited from
his forefather, Binyomin, who did not bow to Eisov and remained untainted by
him, “lo yichra velo yishtachaveh,” Mordechai did not bow to the Amaleik
of his day. Putting his life in jeopardy to reject the power of Amaleik,
Mordechai was able to defeat him.
Binyomin and his offspring are
blessed with an additional source of strength to withstand the forces of evil.
The Medrash in Esther Rabbah (7:7) lists several
similarities in pesukim pertaining to Yosef and those talking
about Mordechai. This strength came from Rochel Imeinu, mother of Yosef and
ancestor of Mordechai, says Rav Gamliel Rabinovich. She was moser
nefesh to preserve the pride of her sister Leah and implanted this
ability, a burning ga’avah d’kedusha, in her children.
Mordechai fused the pride and
strength of Rochel with Binyomin’s purity and was thus able to withstand
Haman’s threats. He rallied Am Yisroel around him and, b’achdus,
together, they dislodged Amaleik’s grip over them.
Hence the new light of Purim,
laYehudim hoysah orah, for their light had been dimmed by Amaleik and their
Torah wasn’t complete as long as the shadow of Amaleik hovered over them. Purim marks
the day when all the Jews were freed from the veil of darkness.
Purim serves as a beacon to us to
withstand temptation and threats of evil. On Purim, we are pumped and
realize our true strength. We realize that we really do have what it takes to
be good, to do good, to withstand life’s challenges and to not grow morbid. We
are all strong enough to stand up to our enemies. Not only shevet Binyomin,
but all of Klal Yisroel. Not only the children of
Rochel, but all of us.
Our first encounter with Eisov’s
grandson, Amaleik, comes in Shemos (17:8), where the posuk states,
“Vayavo Amaleik vayilocheim im Yisroel b’Refidim.” Amaleik came and
battled Klal Yisroel in Refidim. The Gemara (Sanhedrin 101a)
explains that the posuk states that the battle took place in
Refidim to tell us that Amaleik was able to fight Klal Yisroel because
the nation became weak - rofu yedeihem - in their study and
observance of Torah.
In order to defeat Amaleik and his
descendants, we have to be dedicated to the Torah. Amaleik is the descendant of
Eisov and inherited his abilities. Yitzchok promised Eisov that when Yaakov is
weak, he shall rise over him.
So much about what goes on around
us is fallacious that it becomes harder to recognize the truth. Politicians
think that we are all fools, and the ability to lie and obfuscate seems to have
become the strength du jour.
There has been a non-stop bashing
of Donald Trump by Democrats and a nice number of Republicans saying that he
had worked with Russians to manipulate the election so that he would win.
Dossiers were written, leaked and published by Trump’s political enemies to
prove how depraved the man is and the levels to which he sank to steal an
election. The heads of the FBI, CIA and National Intelligence colluded with
leaders of the Justice Department, the national media and politicians to seek
to unseat a duly elected president through a series of investigations and
concerted public lampooning.
It was for naught, however,
because the lengthy investigation upon which the opposition based its hopes for
the overthrow failed to turn up anything that could be used to unseat the
president or portray him as corrupt or complicit in any collusion.
National leaders swore, testified,
wrote books and staked their reputations on claims that turned out to be lies,
yet they escape scrutiny and carry on with new allegations and investigations
and ways to impede the work of the administration.
Similarly, as the election
campaign continues in Israel, candidates continue to portray themselves as
things they are not. Everyone becomes an expert, lobbying shells at each other
and at entire segments of the country in a bid to be viewed as an effective
leader.
For example, General Benny Gantz,
who formed a party together with our old friend, Yair Lapid, spoke at Aipac
this week. He knows a lot about religion and is an expert on the Kosel.
This is what he said: “In Bergen-Belsen, no one asked who is Reform and who is
Conservative, who is Orthodox and who is secular. Before going into battle, I
never checked to see who had a kippah under their helmets. …As a proud
owner of a red beret, worn by this liberator of the Kotel, I can tell
you with confidence that the Western Wall is long enough to accommodate
everyone. Everyone!”
Of course, the secular crowd went
nuts, roaring its approval for the man who wants to topple the best prime
minister Israel has ever been blessed with in a time of war.
Another genius who addressed Aipac
sought to portray the Democrat Party as pro-Israel, when everyone knows that it
has taken a frightening shift leftward and away from the Zionist state.
Rep. Steny Hoyer, majority leader
in Congress, said, “There are 62 freshman Democrats. You hear me? Sixty-two —
not three.” He was trying to fool the gathered Jews into thinking that the
three prominent freshmen Democrats who are anti-Semitic and anti-Israel have a
minor role in the party, though it is so clear that even senior Democrats are
following the lead of these three
freshmen. Another politician, another liar.
These examples are emblematic of
the sheker of this world. We can’t let ourselves be subsumed by it or
think that we have to resort to using the implements of Eisov to defeat him.
If we want to be able to combat
the various evils prevalent in the world, we have to embody the powers of
good, the koach hatov. We cannot overcome our enemies if we become
as vacuous as they are. Darkness is beaten by light. If we aren’t drawn to the
light, we won’t be able to stand up to the forces of darkness.
On Purim, we relearn how to
grab on to the faith of Mordechai as we do on Yom Kippur. We
recognize that our personal and national strength emanates from Torah, and we
do not bow or capitulate to anyone, nor do we compromise with people who seek
our destruction. We proclaim our loyalty to the truth and strengthen its
tributaries.
And most of all, on Purim
we solidify that which we have learned since the beginning of Adar, bringing
ourselves simcha and yishuv hadaas, which come not from
what we see, but from what we believe.
The believer possesses a calm
assurance that engenders the joy of faith. Those attributes enable us to
happily and successfully conquer life.
In this week’s parsha, we
learn how Aharon Hakohein reacted with silence to the terrible pain of losing
two sons.
Aharon’s reward for his acceptance
of Hashem’s will was that the Ribbono Shel Olam taught Klal
Yisroel a new parsha, a halacha transmitted
through Aharon alone (Vayikra Rabbah 12:2). The law that a kohein may
not perform the avodah while intoxicated was said by Hashem directly
to Aharon.
Because Aharon reacted calmly to a
difficult blow, he was rewarded by Hashem teaching through him the halacha that avodah
can only be performed by a person who is in a calm state and not intoxicated.
Through internalizing the lessons
of Purim, we increase our happiness and calmness as we confront daily
challenges. We don’t leave behind Purim and its unique mix of utopian
joy when we remove the masks and unwrap the mishloach manos packages.
The efforts we
expended to fashion for ourselves and our families the Purim experience
should yield not only good pictures and memories, but also a joyous spirit to
carry us through the coming weeks.