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Rabbi Pinchos
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Fresh from the
lessons of Purim, having been mekabel the Torah mei’ahavah,
we encounter Parshas Shemini, which offers us uplifting lessons to
illuminate our path.
At the time of Krias
Yam Suf, a fearful nation was told, “Hashem yilocheim lochem ve’atem
tacharishun - Your duty at this time is to remain silent, as Hashem
defeats the Mitzriyim” (Shemos 14:14).
Chazal state that this
advice is eternally relevant, pertinent today as then. There are times when we
must speak up and times when we should remain silent, times to do battle and
times to be passive.
As the Jews stood
at the Yam Suf with nowhere to go and the Mitzriyim quickly catching up
to them, Hakadosh Boruch Hu told Moshe that it wasn’t a time to stand in
lengthy prayer: “Lo eiss atah leha’arich b’tefillah.” While in a
time of danger we normally cry out to Hashem for salvation, this time was
different.
There is an “eis,”
a time, for everything, as expressed by Shlomo Hamelech in Koheles: “Eis
livkos, ve’eis lischok… Eis le’ehov, ve’eis lisno, eis milchomah, ve’eis sholom.”
How we are to act in each “eis” is determined by the Torah.
Many times, you
hear people describe a person as a good man. For example, they say, “He does a
lot of chesed, he is a good husband, and he is kovei’a ittim.”
Homiletically, the phrase may have come about as a depiction of people who
determine what type of eis it is and how to react to various ittim
through the prism of Koheles and Torah. When we say that a person is “kovei’a
ittim,” we are saying that the Torah is his foundation and solidifies his
responses to the vagaries of life. His reactions are dictated by the Torah.
In Parshas
Shemini, we learn that Aharon Hakohein felt unworthy when he was selected
to perform the avodah in the Mishkon. The posuk states
that he was commanded to approach the mizbei’ach: “Krav el
hamizbei’ach.” Rashi quotes Chazal, who explain the strange language
as teaching that Aharon was told, “Set aside your humility, because you were
Divinely chosen for this task.”
Although Aharon
preferred to remain in the background, when told that it was an eis for
him to step into a leadership position, he was spurred to action.
His sons, Nodov
and Avihu, however, sought to go where they didn’t belong. They reasoned that
they were worthy of making decisions regarding the Mishkon. On their
own, they decided that they were to bring an offering of flaming ketores.
The posuk (Vayikra 10:1-2) states, “Vayakrivu lifnei Hashem
eish zora asher lo tziva osam - They brought a strange fire that they were not
commanded to do.” Because of that, a fire that emanated “milifnei Hashem”
killed them.
The Torah refers
to the fire they offered as “strange” and explains what was strange about it: asher
lo tziva osam, it wasn’t commanded. It was their own idea, and thus it was
strange and unwanted. They may have meant well, and they wanted to share in the
great celebration and help out in the consecration of the Mishkon, but
because it wasn’t based on Torah or mesorah, it was strange and
unwanted. Thus, a fire went out milifnei Hashem and smote them.
People who act
based upon their own thinking, ignoring or twisting halachah and mesorah
to comply with what they think is necessary and makes sense are unwanted and
are playing with fire.
This is not only
directed at those who claim to be adapting Orthodoxy to fit with the times, but
also those who believe that they possess the ability to divine on their own the
proper course of action in any given situation.
Our history is
full of exceedingly humble men who kept themselves out of the limelight until
their leadership was demanded. The Chazon Ish learned quietly by
himself, his brilliance known to few. But when he arrived in Eretz Yisroel and
people began turning to him, he emerged like a triumphant general, leading the
fledgling Torah world and presiding over the growth of an empire.
His
brother-in-law, the Steipler Gaon, was viewed as a batlan until the
baton was passed to him. He then roared like a lion and showed the way as the Am
HaTorah was faced with unprecedented challenges. His colleague, Rav Elazar
Menachem Man Shach, was viewed much the same until his senior years. He fully
immersed himself in Torah learning until he reached a new chapter in his life,
when he was called to lead. The gentle giant shocked all who knew him as he
became the undisputed leader of the Torah world, guiding a nation with his knowledge
of Torah and the lessons taught him by his rabbeim, primary amongst them
the Brisker Rov.
Likewise, Rav
Yosef Sholom Elyashiv was a masmid who learned in his own little corner
until the day Rav Shach told him that it was time to serve the klal in
his place.
Klal Yisroel, Rav Akiva Eiger
once said, has a chush harei’ach, a sixth sense, about who their gedolim
are. There is no preparatory school, no route one takes to get to the top.
Rather, the people themselves know who should lead them.
Throughout the
ages, our leaders were trained and formed in the crucible of Torah. Our people
never looked to those who pushed themselves and forced themselves into
positions of influence. Torah is the domain of the humble and the
self-effacing.
Nodov and Avihu
were well-intentioned, but their gaavah misled them and caused them to
be lost to the Jewish people. So often, we see people embroiled in
self-destructive behavior and machlokes, ruining themselves and others
for no apparent reason. When we look deeper, we see that gaavah is at
the root of the problem.
Humility doesn’t
mean that it is not important to be confident in our abilities. Humility means
that although we appreciate our attributes, we accept upon ourselves the kevias
ittim of Torah. We recognize that we are under the jurisdiction of the laws
and moral demands of the Torah. We don’t think that we are smarter or better
than those who came before us. We don’t speak out of turn, and those of us who
are not fully versed in halachah and hashkofah defer to those who
are. We don’t make our own rules and set our own guidelines that are not in
keeping with the way our people have been conducting themselves over the past
millennia.
Because of his
humility, Aharon Hakohein merited a life of closeness to Hashem, working
in the Mishkon. He sought to distance himself from leadership, for he
felt himself unworthy, but once he was commanded to rise, he fully embraced the
position. As he served Hashem on the holiest levels, mentoring his people
wasn’t beneath him. The oheiv es habrios umekarvan laTorah lived
on the golden path, traveling the road of harmony.
Upon the demise
of Nodov and Avihu, the Torah tells us, “Vayidom Aharon.” Their great
father, the kohein gadol, who had just initiated his role in the Heichal
Hashem, was silent. Aharon, a competent and experienced communicator, was
undoubtedly able to express himself very well. After all, he was Moshe
Rabbeinu’s spokesman. He was a man who pursued peace, settled disputes, and
drew people closer to Torah. Why is it that when his two great sons were taken
from him, he remained silent?
Because that is
what was demanded by the Torah during this “eis.”
It was an eis
lishtok.
He had no mesorah
of how to respond. Nobody had ever experienced a tragedy like this. He had no
tradition of how a father reacts when losing children who were moreh
halachah lifnei rabbon, being makriv an eish zora at the chanukas
haMikdosh. They were great men, with righteous intentions, but Aharon
remembered the lesson of “Ve’atem tacharishun.”
Sometimes,
silence is the correct response.
In life, we are
often tested. Sometimes, it is proper to speak up. Other times, the best
reaction is to remain silent.
When there is no mesorah
for how to respond, we remain silent and wait for those more qualified than us
to speak and provide direction. We don’t rush headstrong into new storms. We
don’t view ourselves in grandiose terms, as if we are able to chart the proper
course.
Through
perfecting the art of silence, we merit the gift of speech. Chazal tell
us that the reward for Aharon’s silence was that in the following parsha,
the rule that kohanim may not become intoxicated at the time of avodah
was told by Hashem to Aharon alone. Because he remained silent, Aharon was
given a special mitzvah to transmit. He was called upon to speak.
The depth of his
reward is that there is no mandate to be quiet or to speak. The only mandate is
to follow the ratzon Hashem. Our only task is to be a “kovei’a ittim.”
One who is humble
enough to submit is humble enough to lead.
That is the
message of this week’s parsha and the lessons of gedolei Yisroel, who,
as different as they may have been in outlook and temperament, shared the dual
characteristics of humility to follow and courage to lead.
Chazal teach that “seyog
lachochmah shtikah,” the key to wisdom is to remain silent. Don’t speak
when you are not called upon. Don’t engage in idle talk. Don’t be quick to
judge and mock other people. Don’t speak about matters publicly without knowing
the facts. Silence is the sign of intelligence, because, often, the most
prudent way to respond is through silence.
There are many
issues regarding which we have no clear guidance. There are so many things that
transpire that we don’t understand. We must bend our ears to the Torah
and hear what it says. In times of happiness and not, we have to think
about how the Torah would want us to act. What would our parents and
grandparents say? How would they react? What would our rabbeim say? They
knew better, and they know better, because they know how to be kovei’a ittim
al pi haTorah, and we have to learn from them to be quiet, tzonua
and humble, and how to be mekabel din and tochachah.
“Vayidom
Aharon.” When his sons were killed on the day of the chanukas haMishkon,
Aharon was silent. He didn’t wail and he didn’t scream. Rather, he accepted
what happened, knowing that Hashem willed it so. And because he was quiet at
that moment, he merited speaking to Hashem and to the Jewish people and
performing the avodah. His silence paved the path for his family for
generations to come and for Jewish leaders for all time.
Was he quiet or
talkative? He was neither. He was an eved Hashem, devoted to following
Hashem’s will, perceiving the change in ittim and reacting. He knew that
nothing happens out of happenstance, and if tragedy occurs, it is because
Hashem willed it so. Our duty is to accept what Hashem has done and wait until
another day to properly comprehend what transpired.
The person who
lives with bitachon is at peace. Current events don’t shake him. He is
not easily rattled. No matter what happens, he is able to maintain his
equilibrium. Vayidom Aharon. Because he was a man of faith and didn’t
become rattled, he was able to see the big picture and recognized that a kiddush
Hashem was created by the deaths of his sons. He thus returned to the avodah
“ka’asher tzivah Hashem,” for as a humble, G-d-fearing person, he knew
that his role was to submit to the ratzon Hashem.
Following the
Holocaust, there were two courses of action for survivors. Their harrowing
experiences left many forlorn and broken. They lost their will to live and felt
that Hashem had forsaken them. And who can blame them? They couldn’t recover.
But there were
people whose emunah was stronger, and although they had lived through
those same experiences as the people who became depressed and lost, they put
their lives back together, established new homes, and found what to celebrate
about as they went on to live productive lives of “vayidom,” neither
complaining nor becoming immobilized by their multiple tragedies.
Far be it from us
to comprehend what they lived through or to judge the people who were subjected
to sub-human abuse, but we can learn from their examples. Each one of those
people, from the simple Jews to the venerated leaders, is a hero to our nation.
Together, they helped rebuild and resurrect a decimated people following the
war. Their bodies were ripped apart, their families were destroyed, they were
penniless and lonely, but their souls remained whole and pure.
Whatever life
does to us, we must remain whole and unbroken. Sometimes, the temptation is to
fall apart and break down. If we can rise above our experiences in a state of “vayidom,”
we can bounce back and resurrect ourselves, triumphing despite many setbacks.
Of course it’s easier said than done. Oftentimes, we need the help and
reassurance of good people to keep us on track, but survival and endurance beat
the alternative.
For years, we
have been writing about the plight of Sholom Mordechai Rubashkin, sentenced to
27 years of prison. We have been writing of the fallacies in the case brought
against him. Many have doubted his version and gravitated to the government’s
charges that he was found guilty of causing a $27 million loss to the bank with
which the company he worked for had a line of credit.
Last week, we
reported about the overwhelming evidence of prosecutorial misconduct, proving
that his sentence is uncalled for. Notes from a 2008 meeting of government
officials were presented, as were legal affidavits that show that what Sholom
Mordechai has been saying is true.
Rubashkin lawyers
offered testimony from people interested in purchasing the plant that the
government caused them to withdraw their bids because of threats of forfeiture
and demands that no member of the Rubashkin family be involved in management of
the plant they built and ran.
Paula Roby, a
lawyer for the bankruptcy trustee, testified falsely that there was no attempt
by the government to prevent any members of the Rubashkin family from being
employed by the plant under new owners.
In her written
decision finding Sholom Mordechai guilty and declaring the amount of the loss,
U.S. District Judge Linda Reade wrote that she accepted Roby’s testimony and
determined that the prosecutors did not cause the value of the business to
plummet. It was all Sholom Mordechai’s fault, and for that he has to sit in
jail for 27 years.
The new evidence
presented to the court conclusively proves that the government knowingly
presented false and misleading testimony and withheld exculpatory evidence.
This man, whose
business was taken from him, whose reputation was ruined, and who was left
penniless and has been separated from his family and society for almost seven
years thus far for a crime he did not commit has good reason to be depressed
and bitter, yet his faith remains solid and he remains devoted to Hashem and
His Torah. He is happy in the knowledge that he was chosen to suffer for his
people and is performing his duty behind bars. He knows that he will be
released when Hashem determines that his mission behind the barbed wire has
been fulfilled, and he eagerly awaits that day.
No matter where
we are, a Jew is always home, surrounded by opportunities to accomplish and
prevail, though each place, season and moment has a specific avodah. We
are never alone if we are ensconced in the “dalet amos shel halachah,”
governed by the halachos and hashkafos of the Torah.
May the clarity of emunah and bitachon light up our
paths, so that we merit living as ehrliche Yidden, servants of
Hashem, and welcoming Moshiach tzidkeinu bekarov.