Tragedy
Rabbi Pinchos Lipschutz
The Jewish world is still in a state of shock over the
murdering of 11 Jews in a Pittsburgh synagogue. People wonder how such a
terrible event could happen in our time in this country. How has this happened
in the modern day and age to American people, in an American city, in a
synagogue?
We have always known hatred. Anti-Semitism has been
with us ever since we became a nation. But somehow, we thought that such crimes
could not happen here. We thought that America was different, that America was
safe. Shootings, pogroms and attacks on Jewish gathering places were things of
the past. We thought that only Europe is unsafe, and that only the Gaza border,
Yerushalayim and the West Bank are dangerous.
Now we know that it can happen anywhere and at any
time. A sick person can load a gun and walk into a Jewish place of worship and
wantonly kill. We can’t stop him. Everyone is all worked up now, issuing
statements to the media condemning the violence and anti-Semitism, and calling
for increased security and sensitivity training. Time will pass and the memory
of the Pittsburgh shooting will fade, but its effects will last for a long
time.
A line has been crossed. Our safety can no longer be
taken for granted. The protective bubble that deluded us into thinking that
such things only happen to other people in other places has been punctured.
We live in frightening times. Hatred and rancor have
taken over the country. Politics has descended into an uncivil state, affecting
the country’s discourse and behavior. People can’t simply disagree. Instead,
they descend into rabid hate. It is no longer enough to speak ill of people who
think differently than you. It is now necessary to destroy them. Democrats are
no longer as supportive of Israel as they were. How can they be? After all,
Trump is all in for the Jews. Socialists seem to be steering the Democrat
Party, and Israel isn’t their thing. Nor are Jews.
If we think about the changes that have come over this
country the past couple of years, we can become worried about the future, so we
choose to continue going about our daily lives, consumed with inconsequential
matters. We don’t read the news seriously; we don’t want to know what is really
going on. We rely on snippets of information. Anecdotes and sound-bites replace
intelligent knowledge.
There is currently a collapse of society and moral
standards, coupled with a climate of division and rancor that can lead to
frightening results. The Pittsburgh shooting and last week’s mail bombs were carried
out by evil, deranged people. They are indicative of a world gone mad.
To be sure, America is the best host our people have
known, and moments of silence and mourning vigils were held across the country.
The Pittsburgh Steelers football team amended their logo with a Magen Dovid to
express the city’s outrage at the tragedy. We need to be thankful and
appreciative of the country in which we live and the ideals it espouses. The
Jews in Pittsburgh were killed for one reason, because they were Jews. The irrational
hatred of our people reaches back for millennia, though it is on the rise,
there is a measure of comfort to see it almost universally condemned following
the murders.
Jews around the world are preparing to commemorate
Kristallnacht, keeping alive the memory of the Nazi attack that unleashed
historic murder and hatred. Many of the speakers, no doubt, will claim that
never again will such a tragedy take place, because today there is a Jewish
state and an army that fight for the Jewish people.
The insincerity of that statement hasn’t stopped
people from making it. Despite the State, Jews are under constant attack around
the world and in Israel. Iran continues to strengthen. Hezbollah and Hamas on
Israel’s borders are arming for a coming war. Bombs of all types fly into
Israel from Gaza. Nobody can stop balloons and kites, children’s playthings,
from being used as merciless implements of terror. European Jews live in
constant fear and anti-Semitic acts in the U.S. have risen 57% over the past
two years.
What are we to do besides increasing security? Our
world suffers from a lack of solidarity and commitment to each other. We need
to rectify that. Where do we start?
This week’s parsha details the search for a wife for
Yitzchok Avinu. Avrohom sends his trusted servant Eliezer to his homeland to
find a suitable mate. Eliezer goes beyond what can be expected of a messenger
and formulates special tefillos and tests to ensure that Avrohom’s will is
carried out. Thanks to Eliezer’s loyalty, Yitzchok found his life partner and
was able to continue the glorious chain begun by his father that has spanned
the centuries to this very day.
Eliezer’s behavior is contrasted in the parsha with
that of Efron and Lovon, who sought to take advantage of Avrohom. They professed
to be concerned about Avrohom’s welfare while plotting to take advantage of
him. They were seeking to exploit his desperation.
Both Lovon and Efron made their marks on history as
infamous charlatans. They are remembered for eternity as liars and cheats.
We must live by Avrohom’s standards of decency and
honesty, despite the daily challenges we face. So often, we are tested to
determine whether we will behave like Lovon or like Eliezer. There is a little
of Efron everywhere. One can always find people who seek to take advantage of
others for some gain. People are often tempted to twist the truth just a little
in order to gain the upper hand. People promote themselves as virtuous to
disarm others and to facilitate their exploitation.
The children and talmidim of the Avrohom Avinus and
Yitzchok Avinus of this world achieve immortality and earn the loyalty and
servitude of people such as Eliezer. Those who follow in the ways of Efron and
Lovon are eventually exposed and become figures of eternal derision.
It is not always easy to be loyal to a cause or to a
person. Life has a way of severely testing our moral fiber. Those who remain
loyal to their ideals no matter how difficult it becomes are the ones who
endure. They are the winners in the deadly contest of good versus evil.
The Gemara (Sanhedrin 97a) quotes a teaching from Tana
Devei Eliyohu that following creation, the first two thousand years of the
world were filled with emptiness. Rashi (ad loc) explains that the world was
empty because the Torah was not yet given. There were 2,000 years from the time
of Adam Harishon until Avrohom Avinu began studying Torah.
Rav Moshe Feinstein asks how the Gemara can say that
there were 2,000 years without Torah, since Noach studied Torah and established
a bais medrash under the leadership of Sheim and Eiver.
He answers that Sheim and Eiver didn’t do any
recruiting for their yeshiva. They didn’t go out to the world to try to
interest people in studying Torah. People who on their own were searching for
the truth went to the yeshiva and studied with them. Avrohom, on the other
hand, traveled from place to place and sought out good people. He spoke of the
fallacies of the prevailing way of life in their day and introduced people to
the way of Hashem and Torah.
This was essentially the chesed path of Avrohom. He
didn’t only act charitably to people who appealed to him for assistance, but
went out of his way to find people who needed help. This was evidenced in last
week’s parsha, when he left his home and sat under the desert sun, seeking out
passersby to whom he could display kindness. He didn’t just study Torah by
himself, but sought others with whom he could share the secrets of a blessed
life.
The closer a person is to Torah and the more he
studies mussar and works on his middos, the more inclined he is to think about
other people and to be kind and considerate. He seeks to go in the ways of
Hashem, who is merciful and kind – rachum vechanun – as we discussed last week.
Such a person is a boruch. He is blessed. Those who veer from Torah and are
distant from Hashem and His ways are selfish and inconsiderate. Such people are
arur, evil and cursed.
The Maharal (Nesivos Olam, Gemillus Chassodim; Gevuras
Hashem 4) explains this in his terminology. Man is comprised of spirituality,
tzurah, and physicality, chomer. A person who is chomer is selfish and only
takes; he doesn’t give. That is the nature of the physical realm. The more a
person is tied to his spiritual side and the more he has rid himself of
physical inclinations, the more he is a giver and not a taker.
Chazal teach, “Lo am ha’aretz chossid - A person
unversed in Torah cannot be virtuous” (Avos 2:5), because he is held down by
his physicality, which doesn’t allow him to be kind and good.
The posuk (Bereishis 9:25) states, “Arur Canaan,” the
Canaanites are cursed, because they are a people of strictly chomer.
This is what Avrohom hinted at when he told his aides
prior to the Akeidah (Bereishis 22:5), “Shevu lochem po im hachamor - Remain
here with the donkey.” Chazal say that he told them to stay with the chamor,
because they are a nation compared to the chamor, as their makeup is comprised
strictly of chumriyus, pure physicality.
Avrohom was the first to throw himself into Torah,
perfecting himself to the level that he divorced all chumriyus. He was
therefore totally selfless and occupied with chesed, reaching out to many
others to fill the emptiness of the world with Torah and goodness. He was able
to impact the world and make it a much better place, allowing the light of
Torah to penetrate the darkness and eviscerate the tohu.
We, in our day, must follow in the path of Avrohom and
reach beyond our comfort zones to do chesed and teach Torah. The world is
suffering from a plague of darkness, vile myopia, devastating immorality,
lethal stupidity, deadly hatred, and predatory selfishness. It is incumbent
upon us to light up the world and make it a much better place with Torah and
chesed, just as our ancestor Avrohom did.
We don’t improve the world by issuing statements. It
is almost as if nothing that happens of any consequence means anything anymore.
Everything becomes an excuse to post shallow, trite aphorisms and stale talking
points.
The parsha opens with the passing of Sorah Imeinu at
the age of 127. We are all familiar with the Rashi that states, “Kulan shovin
letovah – All her years were equally good.”
It would be superfluous for Rashi to hint that her
years were all equally good because they were free from sin, since this is already
stated in the previous Rashi: “Bas kuf kebas chof lecheit.” Sorah was free from
sin.
If it means that all her years were good, we know that
they weren’t. The day she was snatched from her husband and brought to Paroh
certainly wasn’t a good one. The day she was kidnapped by Avimelech was surely
terrifying. The day she saw Yishmoel being metzacheik with Yitzchok could not
be described as a good one. The days that Hagar caused her pain were not good
ones. Of course, she accepted whatever was thrown her way, but that alone does
not turn bad days into good ones.
The explanation may be that Sorah Imeinu was the
personification of goodness. She was so good and so concerned about other
people and the welfare of the world that she seized every opportunity to act
positively. Her days were filled with chesed and tzedakah.
She didn’t just stand by and say, “Why doesn’t someone
do something?” When she sensed an opportunity for improving the world, she
grabbed it. When she saw someone who needed help, she didn’t just offer them
advice about where to go and what to do. She brought them into her tent and
took care of them herself.
Because she was so intrinsically good, she spent her
days and years engaged in goodness. She spread kindness and G-dliness wherever
she went. In every situation and in every predicament, she discovered the means
to increase decency in the world.
When Rashi describes her years as “kulan shovin
letovah,” the tovah is not only a noun and an adjective, but a verb. All her
years were spent consistently performing acts of goodness. That is the mark of
a person whose essence is good.
Chazal say, “Avrohom megayeir es ha’anoshim veSorah
megayeres es hanoshim.” Avrohom and Sorah were mekareiv tachas kanfei
haShechinah thousands of people. Yet, when Avrohom became aware of the behavior
of Lot’s shepherds, he distanced himself from his nephew. He could no longer
live together with him in peace. They separated and Lot moved to Sedom.
It is not enough to just do good things. We also have
to separate ourselves from evil and seek its destruction.
Rashi in last week’s parsha comments on the posuk
(19:4) which states that all the people of Sedom surrounded Lot’s house. Rashi
says that no one in the city protested their actions. The Sifsei Chachomim
points out that it is impossible for thousands to surround one home. Rashi is
alluding to the fact that we all have an obligation to protest evil, and those
who fail to do so are punished as if they committed the crime.
Since nobody in Sedom protested those who were
besieging Lot’s house, all Sedomites were accomplices in the demonstration
against the guests who visited their town.
The people of Sedom who said, “It’s only a few
deranged people at Lot’s door,” urging others to ignore them, were punished as
if they themselves stood with the unhinged citizens of their city.
The Shulchan Aruch states, “Yisgaber ka’ari la’amod
baboker.” The Mishnah Berurah explains that when you wake up in the morning, do
not complain that you are tired and do not find excuses to remain in bed. Fight
like a lion to rouse yourself and begin a day of service to Hakadosh Boruch Hu.
Even if you collapse from exhaustion and fear that you cannot go on doing good,
understand that you must persevere. Pick yourself up and carry on with your
responsibility of spreading goodness in this world.
Rivka was chosen as a wife for Yitzchok because of her
kindness. Eliezer thanked Hashem and said, “Atah hochachta…” (24:14). The
Seforno (ibid.) explains that he was saying, “You, Hashem, taught her to be
kind.” Rav Chaim Friedlander explains in Sifsei Chaim that Rivka learned to
perform chesed by realizing that Hashem created the world so that He can engage
in kindness to man and His other creatures.
Never give up. Never get down. Never say, “I am too
old, too young, too poor, too rich, too tired, or too hungry to work to make
this world a better place.” Remember that your obligation is to be a rachum
vechanun. Never lose sight of the traditions of kindness and compassion passed
down by our forefathers. Never wander too far from the path of light into the
swamp of darkness. Be kind.
When the Tzemach Tzedek was a young married man, he
was in the home of his grandfather, the Baal Hatanya, with his family. While he
was learning, a baby began to cry. He was so involved in his learning that he
continued to study as the baby howled louder and louder.
The Alter Rebbe was upstairs in his study when he
heard the baby’s cries. He went downstairs, lifted the baby from his carriage,
and handed the child to his grandson. The Tzemach Tzedek apologized for not
hearing the baby. “I am sorry,” he said. “I was concentrating so deeply that I
didn’t hear anything.”
“Yes, my dear grandson,” the rebbe responded. “I was
also studying and was just as areingeton as you were, but I heard. Remember
what I am about to tell you: Any Jew, no matter his level, must hear the cries
of another Jew, regardless of how small he might be, and interrupt what he is
doing to help the one who is crying.”
In Pittsburgh and elsewhere, Jews are crying. Let us
hear their cries and seek to help, comfort and soothe them.
May we hear of no more tragedy
and merit only good tidings.